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Today could be the first day of the rest of your life! Its up to you now…

Tomorrow Is Not Promised…Say It Today.

Moms are not replaceable…they rarely get the love the give out so freely.


If you must take someone for granted in this life make sure it is not your mother. Mom, the one who believed in you when most had given up. The only person who walks toward you when you find yourself in a dirty mess while the rest fade into the darkness.

The picture here is of my mom and I this Christmas at a dinner. Pretty common right? Not in this case. One week before this picture was taken, my mom suffered a heart attack and had emergency heart surgery. I did not know if I would even see her on this earth again, never mind having a Christmas meal out with her after that

Today Is The Day.

Today, not tomorrow, tell your mom how much you love her and appreciate all the times she stood by you in the dark times and still managed to tell you convincingly that you would make it and that you will succeed. 

After all, you may not have that opportunity tomorrow…



Never A Dull Moment In My World…Really!

I gave up decades ago even sharing with close friends the goings on in my life. Why? Simple; They didnt believe me, or  simply couldn’t process the idea that these occurrences would be continuous in one person’s life.

Some of the incidents in our family are common like divorce, diseases, abuse and even our tragic times like my brothers suicide and lots of death in general.

I quickly learned that most things are better left to the family. However , sometimes I just got to let it out! Thats where blogging has been therapeutic for me. Last week or so I mentioned I was exhausted from keeping on top of the pedo-priest deal but happy that somebody busted it wide open. The official in Pennsylvania just blew it out of the water with his huge announcement in August.

We needed a break like that.

Thank God most states are following suit and investigating seriously the huge racket of pedophilia in the church.

But, today I’m sharing a different side  of things that I suspect many of you can relate to in your own way.

Battling a group of freaks as powerful and wealthy and nasty as some of Catholic church can be dangerous. I have been in this field long enough to know when you ruffle feathers, you better prepare for war, both *spiritually and naturally.

( *shout out to my atheist friends btw..just ignore that  ” spiritual” reference..lol you all know I love ya..)

lalalala man

Since the year I really started digging my heals in the whole thing I have been attacked from so many directions its hard to keep up. It becomes a way of life. You may lose friends, family and even spouses over it.

(I mean thats what I hear)

But as many of of you all know, when you just know in your knower that you cannot be silent about an issue…you cannot back down…its no longer a choice.

For me it was letting innocent kids become suicidal due to the sick pleasures of thousands of perverts in the church-  I have no choice.

Recently as I was preparing to gather some documents for reporters off my email and files would you believe just coincidentally ( yeah right) I found myself totally locked out of my email, files and somehow at the same time my cellphone carrier ” accidently”did a FACTORY RESET on my cell!!!

If you dont know what that is,  it basically means all the info and documents on your phone go bye – bye. For good.

Since I couldn’t get access to my cell phone now I was locked out of-  I wasn’t able to reset my password for my Gmail because Google requires you to have the current phone number and get a text on it which means I was completely locked out and still am of all the documents I had. Fortunately this blog has been a lifesaver in that area because I posted almost all the things I had … statements, emails from officials etc…

I posted most on this blog so they’re all public anyway.

Whatever was behind that – it didn’t work – but it sure was stressful and still is stressful.

By the way I am well aware I’m not the only person that goes through times like this and I know that people have things even worse much worse than I do,  I’m not here to claim I’ve got the toughest life I’m sure many of you can relate in your own way to what I’m saying.

So just as I was kind of catching my breath after that incident.. Yesterday brought to surface an entirely different issue from an angle I never expected ..

My mother didn’t feel good and she’s always feeling good but I knew something was wrong and insisted she go to the ER. as it turns out  I was overreacting it was just a heart attack.

She only had a heart attack. Of course to my mom it’s like it’s no big deal “I just had a little heart attack they put a stent in and I’ll be okay and home in a few days”

” By the way son did you remember to take the recycle bin out?”

Me-” Yes momma, I got all 4 plastic milk containers in the bin”

It’s driving me crazy…and that’s not a very long trip in my state of mind right now LOL.


I  watched the movie called Flawless the other day with Demi Moore and Michael Caine,  during the movie they were having a conversation about how nothing worth doing is ever about the money and it struck a chord with me. It is very true.

The last decade or so life has seemed almost unbearable in so many different aspects and yet there’s no turning back.

I think many many people reading this can understand that-  whatever your journey and your battle has been,  so just keep your eye on the prize and never never never never give up- and  never count on anybody else to lift you up and push you and motivate you while your surpassing anything they’ve ever attempted.

Finish Strong.

Well they are calling me back to my unit now-  so gotta go.

















This One Stung Me From Behind..

lalalala man

At the end of the day it’s never the hurtful words of my enemies that get to me. At the end of the day it’s the silence of my friends that hurts the most.







Prayers Get Answered. You All Need To See What Just Happened In The Father Gondek Pedo-Priest Situation…

Finally One Diocese Is Going To Be Held Accountable ..


It was 3 years ago I announced to you all that there was a priest who was going unpunished after decades of sexually abusing kids. It just so happened that Father Albert Gondek also groomed and doomed to suicide my own brother Danny after Gondek kept pressing for an adult relationship after high school.

Well the video clip by the news reporter tells it all and I think this will bring an opportunity for some closure for those who never came forward.

They are no longer alone.

Gondek’s most recent playground – a North Carolina church and its diocese is finally under investigation . This is the beginning of the end for all those who covered up for pedo-priests and/or took part in destroying young kids lives.

Click on the blue link above to watch the story unfold…


The Catholic Pedophile Priest Issue Is OVER! Said Michael R. Who Is Behind The Movie Spotlight….”We Got The Job Done!”

“Where are your mommy and daddy junior? You did tell them that this weekend is a sleepover to practice how to wash ” Holy People” -Right?”


Never Count Your Grammy’s Before The Investigation Is Over…



The Response I got from Spotlight Influencer and mega award-winning journalist Michael Rezendez- After I informed him that I had proof that the catholic pedophile racket was 100x bigger than even what his movie Spotlight uncovered. Keep in mind I had evidence and living witnesses. So his response to me as you can see below was to contact the local mullet wrapper – The Charlotte Observer!





I was wondering if you could connect me with the right people who may
be interested in pursuing the case I spoke with you about.
I know you are involved in other things, but if anybody would know it
would be you.
Just to give my story some credibility, I am sharing with you a statement
that only 2 others have seen.
It’s from a priest, not involved in the pedophile ring, who was the last
person to speak to a young man before he was quickly deported to Mexico
after opening up about what a Lexington NC priest did to him, and 7 others
according to him.
This priest as you know happens to be the same priest who.violated my own
brother. That is pure coincidence.
The fact is this same priest accused at least 2 other times in Lexington. As
always, after the ” investigation” nothing was found.

Mike the difference here, is we get to watch in real-time what really
happens behind the scenes when a priest is removed for the investigation.
Its ugly and nasty involving drugs and threats and the zero tolerance is
enforced, but on the kid who talks.
In this case, immediate deportation and separation from family. He. Spoke
to a parishioner, and the priest, and thankfully the parishioner kept
up with it.

What was happening on the inside, via email to me? It was
documented again by the priest in deportation.
He also reported it to the diocese.
Nobody was questioned.
Every effort has been made to get the boy out of the country, and it’s about
time for the church to return with their findings.
They are accustomed to the media has moved on now after a year.
They have.
But we have proof of what really happened.
It would be a shame with all that you have done, to let a chance for the
world to actually watch in real-time how it works.
Cameras should be everywhere awaiting the verdict, letting them spew out
lie after lie. Then to share the real truth.
If you could connect me with anyone who might want to cover it I would
appreciate it.
Please dispose of the statement.

The priest heard the ugly details from the boy, and will back that up.
By the way, his report was diverted to Georgia, and to a higher up who I’m
quite sure won’t be notifying law.

Anyhow, any help at all would be great. Timing is important.

Timothy J. Petri



As I said, I can’t help with your situation. I think I already recommended the Charlotte Observer.



Michael Rezendes

The Boston Globe

135 Morrissey Boulevard

Boston, MA 02125


The Charlotte Observer Mike? But Mike- This will eventually require more media and resources than you ever dreamed of using for the kind rendition of priest abuse in the Spotlight…

Are you sure you mean the Observer? The mullet wrapper in town?

But Mike…I’m telling you – I have the proof!

Mike? You there?

I really think you may have missed just a few…..



Its A Glorious Day For Confessions! All DAY! Gather Round Little Boys…





Uh- Oh…


Pennsylvania Official announces last month ( 8/2018) that he has uncovered over 300 guilty priests and 1000+ victims. Oh, I’m sorry -that was just in a tiny area of Pa. One or two dioceses only and all of the sudden everything I have been shouting at the media and Michael from Spotlight is suddenly true!

Now I don’t mean to downplay the 75 or more priests that the 20 Million dollar movie uncovered as shady. I do have to wonder if Michael heard flashbacks of me telling him that it was much bigger than he knows.

After all- the fog of the trophies and awards must have burned off pretty quickly when he heard the announcement that 300 priests were busted in one tiny area.

I am not sure the 75 Mike uncovered will be enough to act as salve as he realizes that this is exactly what I told him and it is only going to explode.

At any rate – I wanted for the record to post that I did my very best to share all the evidence he could want. But…hungover from Grammy fever or whatever- it seems he was content with his little contribution.

You can click below to watch the announcement on CNN that rocked the world of those who have been protecting or ignoring the truth.


*Now I need to be clear that Mike from Spotlight was not the only one to plug his ears when told of new information I had. Every single outlet, the local police in Lexington NC, States Attorney, All News Outlets and TV affiliates REFUSED to even consider taking a peek at the evidence.

Although David Haines of the Charlotte Diocese gave a media statement that law enforcement and the church would work tirelessly to find the truth- I was unable to convince the detective at the Lexington Police Dpt to even scribble some notes on paper as a ” report”.

Same result from Child welfare and all other ” protective agencies” I asked in NC. 

So actually some might say- the point is – it was uncovered. So chill out Petri.

No- that’s not how it works. Because years passed before the truth came out -although I personally offered proof – thousands of kids were being raped each day needlessly because nobody seemed to care. That means everything.



I Was So – “Not Surprised” By This That I Forgot To Post It When It Aired!

Huge Bombshell Rocks Catholic Church!



For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil. Ecclesiastes 12:14 



Well- Not really but I suppose to some who had been living with head buried under rock,  it may have been a bit shocking. To me, it was long overdue and just the tip of the iceberg. I still felt a little hoarse in my voice from years of proclaiming this very thing to anyone I could.

This truly was a wake-up call for me in another way, however.  I watched the Pennsylvania official list hundreds of priests busted and thousands of victims identified in just one area of the state. I remember watching it and not even shaking my head in surprise or flinching as he read of the most hideous, perverted, disgusting tools the worlds largest organized pedophile racket used to keep their system working.

Some of the examples were several pedo-priests ordering kids to stand naked in the shape of the cross, because Jesus did. They snapped pics and God only knows did what with them. Another example of the intimidation used was after children were sexually abused they were ordered to go to confession! This way they could bear the guilt and shame of the deviants.  Continue reading “I Was So – “Not Surprised” By This That I Forgot To Post It When It Aired!”

Song For Today Is Not The Usual Upbeat One- But One I Have Listened To Over And Over…As Of Late..

Sometimes the music we like or that touches us is not associated with positive things…

Mercy- The Song