VEGAS BABY! ITS PAYDAY….$$$

Wow. Almost forgot – all my believing followers please pray for that COWBOY ANOINTING for my main man and youngest son Jesse Jon. Went one wheel up out of Town this morning to National Finals . Hardest workin 18 year old I ever met..

Oh and uh, Of course I told him this was out of order , but since it’s up now , he is actually dropping a peace sign to a few of his Boyz during a show…lol!!!  How sweet..Oh I mean he should not be doing that type of um , you know. ..it won’t happen again I’m sure…

Tj

The Last Laugh- Hillary V. Trump

 

I was going over the whole election process and speeches with a few of my peeps earlier and I asked this question – ” What was the best and most truthful accusation or slam that Hillary had against Trump?”

Peeps– He became a billionaire by FAILING 4x filing corporate bankruptcy.

Me– Umm ( while googling)- There are 1200 billionaires or so in the world. The average has filed CB 3.75x.

I win.

Any more, I ask?

Peeps– Didn’t you here him make fun of a handicapped guy?

Me-Yes- and it was wrong. Thank God he took ownership, we don’t need any liars. I will have a flawed honest person any day over a flawed manipulating liar anytime.

Me– BTW- How many felony counts did you come up with for Hillary – was it 39 or 44 like I heard? And should she have to serve life if she doesn’t win?

Peeps– Change topic.

I win.


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Lastly and the best was Obama pretending to act as if Trump was ” Startled” after entered the White House and really heard what goes down-From the President….(gag)

Me- I think Trump was so freaking tired of counting how many prayer towels he needs to get out and bored of hearing all the Islamic prayers from the other rooms. Intimidated? That is actually pretty funny. I bet Trump did consider  jumping the freaking table and forcing Obama to do one thing he has refused to do as president in 8 years…SALUTE our own flag!

That’s it. I am out. What an 8 year journey of stupidity – on US.  Thank God for an American President! A Christian American! Amen. Out. Don’t let your prayer clothe hit your ass on the way out Obama-

Peace

tj

 

I am seriously embarrassed and ashamed that America not only put a muslim liar hater who wont even salute the damn flag in office once, but when we found his true motives out, (perhaps when open door to Islamic crap, no guns for Americans, but 30 BILLION cash to the freaking Muslim brotherhood on ramadamdamdam or whatever so they could buy arms to murder us….?) For reals people? I was on my knees when Trump won. If not Obamas ” legacy” ( to kill America ) would be carried out by Hillary.

What’s happening in this world?

Its TRUMP TIME NOW – So sweep that white house out and do it up. BTW you morons on television who swore you would move if Trump won….I believe he offered flight? Why no takers? Just like Hillary- BS.

Does This Scare The Hell Into Anyone Else? Or Just Me?

I cannot understand why anyone would purposely put themselves in this eternal position.

I guess maybe if one of them yelled out ” There’s that fish head I evolved from” or ” My monkeys!! My missing link!” –

Maybe I could at least pretend to believe that Heaven and Hell are fairytales…but you don’t need to be Baretta to crack this one…

Click through the statements made by atheists as they died..

 

If you aren’t sure what this is about, this would be worth calling a Christian friend about. It may turn out to be an everlasting conversation for you.

tj

Mailbag! Questions Only We Dare Answer…

 Dear DLMK-

You may not realize this, but I am actually a fan of yours. I listen to you on the radio when Tom Brady and I play golf! Its  ” The Donald” here!  Seriously I appreciate what you are doing to help children and do check in occasionally. Today my purpose for writing may be both shocking and a little different. Now that the election is over I can finally let this out-

Believe it or not, back in the gap, Hillary and I went together for a short while -I mean as teens. At the time I had a thing for making music and I broke up with her to head to Tennessee to see how I would do. I didn’t do very well at first and word got through to me through Hillary’s IPAD that she was mocking me all over town.

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It hurt, but I stuck with it, and as a personal favor for myself, I would like you to play a little tune I wrote about the years since then….so please. could you please dedicate  my song ” how do you like me now” to her?  It just feels right. This ones for you Hillary-

( Oh and thanks Toby Keith for making it sound right)                 


 

Dear President Elect Trump- We had no idea!  Enjoy! DLMK Staff~

 


Dear DLMK-

Long time reader, first time writer. I just want to ask your opinion on something. Do you think the Obamas are going to TRASH the place on their last night at the White House? I heard their media consultant JAY-Z was coming in town for the bash. Just wondered what you thought.

Leroy in Texas

 


Dear Leroy,

We have no reason to think any trashing, bashing and destroying will be going on there. If there was any slight hint of this type of behavior, it could have been last week when Obama mentioned that he was going to INSURE his legacy lived on as he ” bounced” out of the White House-  Don’t rely on me anyhow I haven’t checked my latest Urban Dictionary for the latest meaning on ” bounced” in months.

DLMK

 

 

 

What’s Your Problem? Do Something About It-This Is Your Chance. Make A Move.

I hate living in crisis. I thought all people did until I started in the counseling/ coaching field 20 years ago. I found actually that some people have grown up in such a crazy environment with violence and fear all the time, that when a little peace time comes, they feel uncomfortable. Now after many years of coaching I have learned that before any help getting up and out of ruts can be offered, people need to be made aware that they have grown comfortable with dysfunction and be forced into a decision; should I stay or should I go?”

After a decision has been made to move into a life of peace, the work begins, but there is no point in even starting if a person feels unable to move on. These days healing and new beginnings move along much quicker with the methods I use because my job is to get people well. I don’t want you to keep coming back to my office each week, so we can re-hash the misery in the past, keeping wounds fresh all the time. That’s how many therapists make a living. Keep people un-well and keep the bills coming. After all, if all the patients got well, how would this type of therapist pay his bills?

I prefer to help people into the decision-making process, and if they choose to get on with their life, to help them up and out of their rut with the support I feel they need on their end, which is usually free. It is much simpler, less painful, and much less costly than the traditional – go to your therapist, lay down on the couch and get analyzed to death method. I have written over 300 posts here and  get an unbelievable amount of feedback on how, where, who, and all of the questions that go with getting started in the healing process, dealing with issues like depression, suicide, addiction, divorce, abuse, and dozens more issues people are suffering with.

 

 

It is disheartening to look a the amount of people claiming to want help, then compare it to the actual number who follow-up with me. Much of it is due to that comfort factor I mentioned earlier, but the bottom line is that we as humans are procrastinators. We avoid doing anything until it slaps us in the face so many times we have to address  it. I started this projected to help people on-line as I have in person for 20 years. I make getting well much less painful than some ways.

I never turn anyone away for any reason other than refusal to comply. I work with adults, teens, entire families, and every possible population you can think of. After 3 years of doing this, I am not feeling that a very high percentage of those reaching out saying they need help are actually following through with our plans. The success rate of the people I work with is very high with 8/10 saying they have moved on into a self supportive stage without the need for weekly consulting from me ( after just a few months)

It’s the initial pulling the trigger, making the move, making contact that is the struggle. So as we start a new month here, I am going to challenge every reader, follower, visitor, client, or contact of mine to help a friend or loved one make that first move. Be there when they cannot find a reason to even lift the phone up and help lift it. DO SOMETHING.

If you have a coach/therapist that you use and prefer then use them. If not, connect them to me by this email address tim@dontlabelmykid.com– I will respond personally very soon and get started. Every person has a different need, there is no cookie cutter method so after we all talk ( you can be in on the first call if they wish) then we will come up with a plan that works for all!

Make November a new start for someone. Excuses are weak and old, we all know someone to help. I challenge all of you to take the first step. Leave your contact info and good time on the email and we will get moving!

tj

 

 

 

Forgive To Live- Why Its Critical To Forgive-Anyone.

I can’t remember the amount of times I have heard someone say ” I could never forgive them for that” or ” Ill never forgive him/her for that”. On the surface it sounds reasonable, especially after you hear the circumstances involved. Sometimes it is sickening and disgusting what people have done to others. At first it sounds plausible to put up the ” unforgiven ” sign by their names and move on, thinking that somehow we have hurt them back.

In reality, it is we who suffer from being unwilling to forgive. Holding onto our forgiveness is one of the most destructive and hateful things we can do-to ourselves. Before I go any further I want to answer a question that I know some of you are thinking. The question being ” why should I forgive them, I will never forget what they did”. Forgiveness and forgetting are two separate issues. I can forgive my father for some horrific things that have affected me and mine into the 2nd generation. However I will not forget, and I would never put myself or anyone else in the position to be hurt by him again.

Forgiveness does not = tolerance. Forgiveness does not = acceptance. Forgiveness does not = erasing the memory. Forgiveness to others means we deliver the same thing to others that we want so badly from the ones we have hurt. Forgiveness to others means the forgiveness we ask God for can flow through us into other people and that we can enjoy the same forgiveness from God that we want sometimes to withhold from others. In the case of forgiveness it really makes no difference if you acknowledge God or not, it is a law in place just like gravity. We cannot change the consequences of gravity whether we like it or not. I hate the fact that if I walk to close to the edge of my roof, I will fall and get injured or even worse. Does this change the effects of violating gravity? Of course not.

So how does forgiveness compare to gravity anyway? It is relevant in the sense that we are made to love and forgive, not to hate and keep account of other’s wrongs. Therefore if we go against that truth and hold back on forgiving, we end up getting clogged up inside like a stopped up toilet. Everything about it is crappy. We may not understand why we are feeling so angry and irritated, and why we feel so bitter. It is because withholding the forgiveness we were meant to give means it stays within us. It dwells in us and becomes bitterness, anger and many times physical illness. In order to release any clogs in our own feelings and enjoy the Grace we get to enjoy from God, we must release what we are holding in the form of un-forgiveness to make room for our own forgiveness to be realized.

You have all seen people who mourn the death of a loved one, to the point that they die still in mourning. Many times they wear only black until the day they die even. The loss didn’t just kill the loved one, but them too. There is a time to mourn, and a time to dance and a time for everything. Not any of those events are to last forever in this world. Just as we have seen the mourning that seems life long of another human, we have also seen the lifelong bitterness in one who has never forgiven others on something. They literally eat themselves away with the cancer of anger inside. That clogged up hole in our soul just wont allow us to enjoy the forgiveness we ask of others and of God. There is a conflict of interest here.

                       WARNING!  RELIGOUS ALERT! RELIGOUS ALERT!   WARNING!

The words God, sin, and Jesus appear in the following paragraphs…just giving warning -Read at your own risk!   Lol

Lastly, and this is geared for believers in Christ or those considering Christ, who of us is without sin? I surely don’t want to stand before God and weigh out my sins against another’s and hope I had less..

The bible says there is ” None righteous No not one”. We all need forgiveness. How can we possibly go before God daily and ask for forgiveness, but carry a backpack full of hatred and un-forgiveness in our own spiritual backpack? I think I know the answer. Some of us truly believe that some sins are worse than others, and we get to decide who deserves forgiveness. The truth is, not one of us could ever do enough to ” earn ” forgiveness from God. The whole reason Christ came and died in our place was so those who accept Him and ask for forgiveness can have a way to stand before God one day with full knowledge that He sees us through the blood of Jesus, not through the list of sins we had.

BTW-There is no sin that cannot be forgiven by the blood of Jesus, except for refusing Him ( Blaspheme of the Holy Spirit)

The thief on the cross next to Jesus never had time to ask forgiveness of anyone he hurt or stole from. He never had time to do a bunch of good deeds to level out his sin scale. His only hope was to turn to Christ and ask Him to remember him and forgive him. The answer might offend many of us who still think we are ” good” people or ” better than most” because we really want to believe we have a secret pass to heaven because we didn’t murder or commit any ” major sin”. Jesus simply said to the repentant thief ” I say to you today you will be with me in paradise”

Hold on just a minute Lord, we may think. That is not fair! I lived a good life and he did nothing good. It just isn’t fair. Do we really want fair? The Lord said that the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God eternal life. You see, sin is a disease we all have, like cancer. Some people’s disease presents in outward ways, like a thief, or an addict. These are the more likely to be judged by the ones who sin is a little more secret. Then there are the ” secret sinners” who love to point out others visible sin while they themselves may be involved in much more vile sin themselves. The bottom line is we all have sin. If we want fair, it is death, according to God. If we want eternal life we accept the gift of the cross and ask God and thank God for the forgiveness that we already posses as a child of the King.

The death on the cross should have been and should be ours. He made a way out for us.

You need not go right to the person who hurt you and have a celebration while telling them you forgive them. You can simply say to God

Lord, anyone who has ever accused, abused, neglected or affected me in a hurtful way, I release them by forgiving them, and therefore release myself from stopping up my own forgiveness from flowing daily that I need so much from you.”

Maybe it will be a long time if ever that you say it face to face, although it is recommended if possible. Even if you just tell God and from your heart release them from un-forgiveness, you will begin to notice a weight lifted.

There is one other option. We can roll the dice and when we die- argue our case before the Lord. We could just tell Him thanks for the cross thing, but, I’m good and whip out a list of good deeds…

As for me I think I will take the easy way out. Take the free gift and be thankful every day for it. It doesn’t give me a license to sin and does not make me a better person then others. I am not even close to being able to get myself into heaven.

But I do know someone who can, and did take care of that.

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Drop the weight inside you today and forgive. Then you can move on with your life.

 

tj

 

Obama Is On Notice..From Hillary..

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‘You promised me Barack! I support your Islam and you would step up for me when my time came’

So ???

 

Top 3 Issues That Eliminate Hillary From Qualifying For President.

 

 

1-Her aversion to and hatred of this

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My son- Army

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Her attraction to.

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Her shameless Sold Out stance with her Muslim team mate.

 

 

Tj

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

AWARD! WOW! YAHOO!

AWARD! WOW! YAHOO!

I am very honored to be the recipient of an award and thankful to my great blogger friends who encourage me to keep on keepin on!I am blessed to be taking home this award from my friend Eric-

Please see the other bloggers who also received it!

http://hunt4truth.wordpress.com/2014/04/21/acts-of-love-and-kindness-award/

DLMK

Bloggers Are Good People-

Bloggers Are Good People-

Yesterday a friend and I were talking about how cut throat and cold the movie industry, the business culture, and the world in general has become. He was describing his experiences as a screen writer and telling me about how things have gotten a little weird in the industry, as people just do not seem to want to work together or help each other succeed.

I interjected that the blogging community I was a part of was different. Bloggers overall are selfless people, who just like to share their experience with others and are a large group of people who work together to help each other succeed. At least that is my experience. I cannot mention all the names, because I will for sure forget someone, but so many of you have reached out and responded to questions I have had, and some have just let me vent about my juggling this blog with a very busy life with 5 kids and many other responsibilities.

Somehow I always come out of it even more inspired, more eager to meet other bloggers and learn about the things they have going on. More inspired to write and do my best to help those I can through this blog.

I just want to say thanks to the wordpress community and others who have been right there to keep me in check since I started this thing 7 months ago. You all know who you are, and I want to thank you for being who you are. I have had a very nice welcome into this community and feel at home here, thanks to you all.
Looking forward to blogging on and meeting as many of you as I can! Thanks for the welcome.

TjP
www.dontlabelmykid.com

Its 3am- I Must Be Lonely…

I have spoken with many people today, walked with some, emailed, texted, skyped, and shared with none.

It’s not 3am, and I don’t feel lonely, I feel unheard. I have spoken much but said little. I have voiced concern but heard only echos. I have Facebook, Yahoo, Google, WordPress, Linkedin, and all the right connections. I can make a phone call to some very important people you know.,,I am good looking, smart, kind, have a good heart and all that jazz.  I feel unheard.

Tomorrow, I will meet and talk with more people, walk with some, and email for sure. I communicate very well and am overwhelmed with the responsibility that comes with having so much going on in my life. Smile here, laugh with the crowd, present myself with a confident air and  make all the right calls, say all the right things, wear the right styles and walk the cool walk. It is easy being successful, but the tasks that come with it are troublesome and burdensome. I will have you know that I have thousands, yes thousands of contacts on any given social network and have access to people in any profession at any level at any time I choose.

I feel unheard. But I am a proven winner! I can do just about anything, especially when it comes to communicating. I am an expert on relationships, have paper to show I finished college, and I cannot even count the amount of letters behind my damn name. That’s how big I am, just so you know. I have mingled with well-known public figures for God’s sakes I have a following that would put most to shame, and my phone is so busy I have a  ” reject call ” setting on it. I just need a break from this hectic and difficult grind.

I do not use cuss words, am well versed on many a subject, can spew the vitriol when needed but I can soften even the hardest of falls you may take, if I choose. I am very, very accomplished as you may see by a glance at my profile. I am sought after by many for advice and I drive a nice vehicle too. You may be envious as you read this, since not many at all have reached the marks that I have conquered. As a matter of fact I wish I could allow you into my world to taste excellence, but you have to do it like I did and earn it.

Is anyone out there?

Is anyone listening?

Is everyone aware of who I am?

I hate picking clothes out to wear, making myself look “acceptable ” to the public by the way. I do not even feel like getting out of bed some days. If you have not picked it up yet, I am a critical part of many people’s lives. Yes, that is correct I simply have to be there for people! What would they do without me? I wonder sometimes what they would do…without me. I mean, I know I am needed but hypothetically speaking, how would everyone carry on if I was not me? I am so unheard. 

LOL! HaHaHa! FUNNY! LMBO! TTYL! HMU! SMH!-

I know every abbreviation to know and I never take selfies, just so you know. I mean, with my schedule, it’s a full on photo shoot for this face to be on anything and it does not happen overnight I will have you know. I am practically a model, and people are waiting to hear my opinion. I hate dishes and dogs – classical music and most democrats. I despise haughty, lying corporate jokers who think they are just  ‘ all that ” because they drive nice cars and can talk a good game. I bet they are miserable and lonely inside and probably have a miserable self-image, although they act all grand and happy when the show starts! I bet they lie about their accomplishments and probably sit at home alone romancing a bottle of wine. Pitiful examples they are, saying one thing and doing the opposite. Proclaiming to be soooo innocent when they are as guilty as the rest. Yes, it is good to be me and free of that mess. I am so busy tweeting, Skyping, and Facebooking that I do not have time for hypocrites or selfish pigs like them. I get reeled out just thinking about what their lives are REALLY like. I bet they are lonely and desperate for attention, while here I am trying to just take 5 from my very jammed up schedule.

I think I will have pizza for dinner, the movie and pizza thing sounds like a good idea to me. I like using Redbox, so I can slip in and out with a movie without running into some needy friend, or co-worker who will want to rant and complain about something. Idiots. Who needs them anyways. Is anyone hearing me? I will be signing copies of my book all weekend by the way, so please try to reschedule any calls you planned on making. I hate the stupid book thing. I really hate all that garbage with publishing and crap. Is anyone out there? You do hear me, right? Good, because I am B-U-S-Y ! No time for games in my world. That is part of the price you pay for success, no time for anything. Can someone message me?

Oh well, this typing is exhausting and I am weary. Have to return messages in a little while anyway, so better stop here.

I feel unheard.

I feel lonely. And it is 3am.