Level Of Defense = Measure Of Guilt? 

So, I heard an interesting fact this morning on a credible news source. In the past year , the Obama administration spent more then 32  million dollars in legal fees to block anyone requesting records that should be public. Hmm. 

As a matter of fact 77% of those who formally requested records got nothing. 

You make the call.

Tj

 

I Supported Their Enemies, Tried To Start A War With Russia On My Way Out And Now I Get Me My Own Medal!

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Ode to myself…By Barry Obama.

I am so proud of myself! Yuk Yuk!

I wonder what it feels like to wear one you earn?

By time my chronies figure out I tried to kill this place me and Michael (and the girls) will be far away with goats galore…

So what if my secret service agent snitches on my little kiddie porn and all. The media is mine! Who cares that my college mates just exposed one of my aliases back in the day and told on me for smoking a little crack.

The media and Hillary will be so focused on the fact that Trump is …..well… RICH.

Keep running with that and my treason filled, kiddie porn, crack smoking muslim brotherhood servant 8 years here will be forgotten in no time! LOL!

American suckers. Some are still backing me! Hahahhahahaha!  Have to admit I did love this American ride.

 

 

 

Mailbag Update* My Bad..

Well sure enough as soon as I post some recent emails from notables, I am flooded with emails supporting Hussein Obama. 

So I have decided to add one leaning towards the leftish/mental health side..


Dear DLMK!

Wake up! You write and write all about Obama like he is some kind of terrible, selfish, angry, temperamental and sore loser. Please .Like you or anyone else would not react the same way to disappointment. Grow up.Act your age 

Signed,

John McEnroe

Nancy Kerrigan 

Tony Stewart

Bobby ( the chair) Knight

Hillary Rodham Clinton

Christiano Rinaldo

Kanye West

Chris Brown

Elton John

Mike Tyson


DLMK- My apologies. We should be evened up. 
Tj



What Is A Successful Blog? Everyone’s Asking. Here Is My Answer.

3.24 minute read. A successful blog is one that you share your true feelings, dont worry about what readers think because the ones that should be following you will. 

A successful blog doesnt need to tell people how to have a successful blog, because they aren’t selling anything . If they are its something people actually need.

A successful blog doesnt pay someone to pump numbers up. If their content is legit the people will come. 

Who among us cannot pay someone to get a million followers? Do it old skool. Act like what you have to say has meaning and dont be afraid of rejection. Thats a successful blog, to me.

Tj

Every Please -STOP -Listen Up

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TJ- Don’t Label My Kid!- Message to my crew. These Little Ladies Are Mine. Boys are up and out. When I look at them I thank God I even get to hold them. It should not be.

This post is about giving many others a chance to watch their babies grow up. Not many would have made it through what I did, and I believe the purpose for this was to make some changes so others could not suffer through certain things that can kill. So please take this to heart and lets do this thing.  I don’t get to make the plans or set dates, but I am pretty sure this is an appointment we all need to be at.  Thanks for taking a few out to read and do what you can. .. You may make it possible for a guy like me to be smiling down at his little girls like I am here, when he would not have made it before…

You all who have been here for a while already know that as a group some very cool things happen through this blog . Nothing anybody could have planned but just incredible events. Well, fasten your seat belts because here we go again.  Last week I was looking around for just the right people to introduce to all of us as experts in their particular area of service. Lets face it, we are all here because some aspect of our lives are not where we would like them to be. You all have written and been very open about anything from suicidal thoughts to physical disabilities or like me a lifetime of hell with addictions issues.  You remember I started last week our kick off on addiction and invited everyone to invite their families and friends who just didn’t get it. Cool right? I  really want to offer every single person here the treatment they need whether it be PTSD or a fear of dinosaurs.  You know why? Because as many of you may know, treatment in general sucks. It is not at all very successful, and just is a dead-end.  I however, having a great resume on the rehab floor, and also as a social worker have had the answers to why. It’s not too complicated but much is about money. Greed. There are other things too and if I had the funding I would have offered REAL treatment from day one. But, I spent my last million a few years ago . Lol.

Well here is where the weird stuff we get as a group once in a while came in. In the last 3 days there has been an influx all over the media and in the treatment and mental health industry to pour out tons of money to start researching peoples experiences and issues with their failed treatment and actually consider making some changes. Wow! What a coincidence! That’s what we all have been talking about for 4 years. Hmm. Is anyone with me yet? We have the hard data compliments of WordPress. 

So bottom line we are one  of a very tiny group who has the opportunity that we do. That is to ask successful providers to give all of us the services we need and our family and friends too. My job is to find the very best 10  or 15 experts in every area we need to sign on to being here for us. I am talking virtual counseling all the way to 6 month stays out-of-state or country if needed. But that’s not the end. Personally I have been in 3 rehabs since age 23 or so. The first one sucked . The second one was a little better because I got some good drugs from other ” patients” – and the last was fair because  staff let us sneak a pill now and then.

So do we all get why our country is falling apart? The treatment centers and treatment is sub-par and I am being  generous. I went into this field hoping that a day like this would happen. Where we would have the upper hand. It’s here. But 2 things must happen.

1- I have to find and recruit the best of the best in each area we all need.

2 -You all need to share the news   DONT LABEL MY KID!    is a place that ANYONE who needs treatment can come. I will make sure nobody is turned away. That is handled by financial people who can split insurances and get grants or whatever.   If you read what Charles on LinkedIn posted and I reposted here 50 THOUSAND PEOPLE on FACEBOOK alone are looking for  treatment. Not 500. 50k.  Why shouldn’t we be the ones to get the best providers on our team and have them get help through us?  We could start hiring from within for admissions and case management jobs. Everyone of us can play a role in a trailblazing effort.

More importantly we can blaze a new trail of treatment  for outpatient treatment centers so that people with the disease of addiction are treated like people with the disease of addiction. Not losers who don’t care. Do you know how many lives that could save?  This little mystery blog we all met on years ago has already done  more to change major issues than any reporters could. That’s just one case about that priest who molested my brother. That isn’t over yet either.

So if I know you all we can do this and make a name that nobody will forget. For the people needing treatment and by the people needing treatment. It is not about me. It would not be a grand accomplishment if I said look what I did. But if I could share the efforts and input and conditions of all of us and the world saw how it all happened, I have to believe we would see long-term change.

Do you know that even if you can get your loved one into a rehab, the chances of recovery are slim. Embarrassing even. You would think those places would do their jobs right? And most of them do try to rise above the average 35-40% success rate . As a matter of fact the top 10 highest rated programs in the country do in fact boast a considerably higher success rate then the other 90%.

The only difference in their programs ( besides up to 75,000$ higher price tag)  is that some have an extra component to supplement the traditional 12 step method that AA and NA use.  Perhaps even a doctor who himself is a recovered addict. The luxury centers in Florida , California often incorporate yoga, hiking and special fruit diets. Fruits and yoga instructors don’t come cheap. All that said we do have some very effective treatment centers in the USA. I suppose there are also a few Ford Pintos still running too. The point here is not that nobody cares or is trying, but it is to address the reality of the logistics, treatment methods, staffing available and many other factors that together present an epidemic right now as we are currently in a never before seen high rate of overdose deaths from opiates and heroin. Gone are the days of the Andy Griffith sticking Otis in the jail cell until he sobers up. It is dead serious and all over.

This may be the most important post I have ever written as the timing of all this gives us as a group an opportunity to make a dent or even spearhead a new way of thinking when it  comes to treatment.

You all know I don’t keep track of numbers or stats and pay for publicity. The reason 4 years ago I didn’t even consider it was two-fold. First, I have lived the hell of addiction since age 12 due to exceptional parenting by my father.  (NOT).  The point is I know what it is like to want to give up. I know what it feels like to give it everything you got, and have people accuse you of being a slacker who didn’t care about anyone else.  I know what its like to drive home from work excited that I had made up my mind not to drink that night and as my truck passed the ABC liquor store it automatically turned in all by itself.

If you want to talk opiates , or anything else have no fear I have been there too. Mine is addiction depression. Yours may be grief. It may be disease in your body. It does not matter. All can be treated. 

So assuming you have the funding, the open bed, and the right circle of clinicians who are the decision makers  in that tiny percentage of the programs,  you may actually have as high as a 3/4 chance of remaining clean. At least for a year. Now as for the other 90% of programs that do  not have that fruitful, ocean side venue  with the possibility of a real live recovered addict as a role model to help treat them, the sad reality is that maybe 3-4 clients will stay clean for even a year. I personally think it is a horrible hope to stick any struggling addict in a system with results like that. I mean now you may be talking random philosophies of treatment for these citizens who just don’t take their lives seriously, and don’t care about the pain they are causing their families. Snap out of it. Grow up.

At least that’s how I felt when I myself found myself on a cold floor in withdrawals with a tiny mattress to lay on as I vomited and contemplated whether life was worth living. My first program I got lucky because the ” tough love shifter” who marched in like military generals demanding roll call and even exercise while you prayed your heart would not fail seemed to be there as a I began to come out of my life threatening symptoms of opiate and alcohol withdrawal. I remember one nice older lady who used to sneak us an apple or two even just to insure a healthy outcome. She may have known more than we all thought, since the crew I did time with all lasted weeks longer in our sobriety then some others.  That at least gave our families an extra week or two to see us sober. It must have been pure bliss for mom and dad.

Not so much. The next program AA though had a little secret that they were so proud of because it has been around for a century. You see they made it mandatory that we all spent an hour or two each day with al the other failures repeating publicly that we had no control over our situation. Thankfully they had a lifelong open door welcome policy to return after our  ” treatment ” just to remind ourselves of our future -the same as it was that day. If it wasn’t for the hope of making it 30 days or even 60 without using and getting to be presented publicly with a  poker chip  for our good behavior, I may have never had the success I did of well over 3 months sober. Pure heaven.  The only problem was I still felt like I was sick. Like I had well, almost like a real human who was productive  in society  would get, a disease.

Crazy me, here I go back to denial. I sucked it up like you do when you hold your breath.  Until again I had to breath. Now that I look back I am being a little hard on the program, because after my first 30 days of peeing clean, I did get to go into a real public place like the working folk and play pool for an hour with the fellas. Heck the guard that brought us even went out for a smoke break once. It was like we were on parole!

So sure, after a few detox weekends , verbal tongue lashings and contract signings in front of the staff who had never been so disobedient to life as I , I eventually was set FREE! I will never forget walking out of the compound to see my own truck there and more importantly my two young sons. They must have been seen me as a role model. I honestly to this day do not think they ever saw the 20-30 slices up and down my arm to my wrist from trying to figure out how to bleed out while in my hellish withdrawals. I couldn’t even get that right. Nevertheless, I had learned to hold my breath longer now. I was as a clean as a whistle. Never stepped foot into another rehab. It was the darn jail cells that got to me though when I earned my first DUI. I didn’t care for it.

Thank goodness on my 2nd DUI the judge allowed me to check in to a 90 day inpatient program. Heck with good behavior, my superiors at my job an as a clinical social worker would never even know!  This program was much different. I felt like a real human the while time. There was no television or computers. You spent all day working physical labor, the were fed well, but this place didn’t have the walk of shame hour each night. Instead mandatory church.  Oh well, I guess it couldn’t hurt. I knew right away I was never going to score oxy and Vicodin’s like at the Miami place, but hey, I will try.

People that was when I was only 30. It took almost 10 more years to even stay functional. That’s unacceptable. I tried everything. I took the shame and guilt and accusations . You all know. So do you want to let it all go or seize a chance to show the kind of pain uneducated people cause others  cause?

That’s it I am done. I got work to do.

Are you going to do your part?

tj

Note*  To reiterate, I never said that all treatment facilities are useless. What I am saying is due to sheer need, different treatment types, and financial issues, people are dying not living.

I spoke to the Executive Director Of the # 1 best treatment center in the USA last night about this.  Asked his opinion.  He understands the problem.  Lets do this.

2017 Addiction Series- *

                                            Toxic Judgement     *** Update*** I apologize for the late start on Addiction 2017- I have been nursing a hangover and dealing with withdrawals. However tomorrow I will lead us on to victory! tj       After you have read that post, do you know anyone who fits into any of […]

                                            Toxic Judgement

 

 

*** Update***

I apologize for the late start on Addiction 2017- I have been nursing a hangover and dealing with withdrawals. However tomorrow I will lead us on to victory!

tj

 

 

 

After you have read that post, do you know anyone who fits into any of those categories?

 

tj

Paradise For The Brotherhood..

You have arrived- Goat is your reward..

Good Morning Mr. President-Sir.

                     And Good Riddence Hussein

You managed to fool some into thinking that you had America and her best interest in mind when you were elected. I had doubts before you were elected, but decided to not judge you because you were a muslim.

But you had to go writing 3 BILLION dollar checks to people who hate us like the muslim brotherhood/ your alumni. You continued to attempt to dismantle piece by piece everything that made this country great. Not a coincidence. Yet you still had your sheeple following just as Hollywood is now. You cannot fix stupid.

For the rest of us, seeing what you have done this month by trying to piss off Russia and put our soldiers at risk – now that is a whole new level nasty stinkin jihad crap.  Its laughable that you ordered yourself a medal of honor right before you try to start a war.

                      You should be executed instantly.

Thank God we now have a real man who is an American and God fearing.

President Trump has forgotten more about life then you and your brotherhood will ever learn combined. He is way ahead of you. It is a shame you got even a tour of our white house, much less pretend to be our leader. Don’t let your prayer cloth hit you on the way out.

 

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Obama wild

Goats are awaiting..

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tj

 

 

 

 

Nobody Has An Easy Life-So Now What?

So its been a very rough road for me in the last decade or two. Many times over did I wonder why the things that were happening were happening-and why those things that were not happening were not. I think everyone goes through that at some stage. It gets worse when you start itemizing the thing that have gone wrong in life.  Our nature is to identify what is wrong with a situation or a person.

If you have kids you understand this. The irony with kids, is we can point out what they are doing wrong all day long and never see any real change in them.  If we began to identify what it is we want to see them doing, than praise them when they are doing it we begin to see change. It’s a long proven fact that negative reinforcement never changes long-term behavior patterns for the good.

Occasionally I will be out at the store or doctors office and overhear people complaining about what they have to live with My immediate  response is to shake my head and wonder how they would deal with what I have on my plate. After all, I grew up with an alcoholic, abusive and violent father who was kind enough to turn me on to alcohol at 13. By the time I was in high school I was a full-blown addict and didn’t know it. The next years it got worse as I had to figure out how to address it. Of course that major depression in the genes did not help. Then my brother and his suicide put another dark cloud over me.

After rehab, 20 different medications or so and trying to make it through college to get into social work, it all got better though….

Not so much. Since then I began a career after college in the field and all but still couldn’t shake the depression and temptation to self medicate. Of course all along even people close to me were starting to judge me as if depression wasn’t real. Meantime I am in the other room trying to figure out how much life insurance I had to leave for my wife and kids. If they only knew. Maybe you know.

After a divorce and the trauma of having to share time to see my little boys it just got worse. I have spent the last 25 years trying to stay one step ahead of addiction and depression and memories of my very abusive childhood. If that is all I had to deal with it would be plenty. Fast forward years and after remarrying I have two little girls to feed. I once again pursue the best work in my field to provide for them and enjoy real living. Just a few years into this, I was out of the blue diagnosed with a rare bone disease called AVN or Avascular Necrosis. Bone death in Greek. In the right hip and doctor says my hip is gone and I need immediate total hip replacement.

Huh? I am 45. I workout. I have kids. I have to work. What do you mean hip replacement? He assured me I would be up and back to work in a couple of months. He as well said a few years. I don’t have money to pay up all bills for that time. However I had no choice. Without the ugly and long version, the doctor and hospital decided I was the perfect candidate to do the surgery live on the web, moderated by 5 other surgeons. I guess to show the world how great they were at surgery. It turned out to be the biggest nightmare of my life. The hip failed 13 months later and began just falling off.. Dropping out  socket. After this paralyzing event occurred 2x and I was taken by ambulance to the ER to have it jammed back in place, I called the doctor repeatedly but oddly Even enough no call back.

Short version, he acted as if he didn’t know me, rather than associate his world-wide debut on the internet with failure. I went on to have a world record 11 dislocations in 11 weeks. No help from doctor. Actually it became such a well-known story that some didn’t believe it was true. To this day it’s up on Dr. Earl Stevens website New Zealand. It’s at earlsview.com then just search Tim’s horror story.  So thanks to the good doctor , I had my 7th hip surgery just  1 year ago. Lost everything we owned. No home, nothing. Turned down 2x for disability because I am ” too well-educated”  which is against the law.

I have had 2 total hip replacements, a revision, bone grafts, core decompression, my jaw bone shaved and then those 11 dislocations. I am tired. I am broke. I wonder why.  Just one break is all I need. I deserve disability. I paid in for 20 years. My failed hip has been in a lawsuit with 8000 others and they recently awarded the first 10 people 80 million each for their suffering but before I got excited my attorney said they might fight my case.

What? Fight my case but why?  I don’t ask anymore. That’s how my life is.

So I told you those little tidbits which represents about 25% of my major issues so you know I am not blowing smoke. I have come to realize that I am not in control here. God had allowed this for His purposes, and there is no fighting that because He did allow it. Next I turn to His word and seek out how exactly I am to deal. First it was clear I am not the first to have trials.

  • 1 Peter 1 6-7Explains what trials produce in us.
  • Romans 8:28 Is a promise that God will work all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
  • Hebrews 11 ( The hall of faith) – Describes how we are not to go by feelings or emotions, what we see or think. We walk by faith not by sight.

It is these things I have had to hold on to. It is very hard in today’s world because every single thing that happens in this world today is against what works according to Gods word. The world tries to talk us out of our faith every day. If you are not renewing your mind in real truth each day from Scriptures you will buy the lies of world.

  • (By the way all my atheist, Buddhist, agnostic, and universe worshippers you know the routine, just skip that bible part if it offends you. I am telling my story and for me its critical. No offense.)
  • Does any of this take away the pain? No. I have pain. I also have peace. Peace is the difference between panicking in trials and standing firm through them.
  • Anyways yesterday something else took my mind off of all my problems. I still have 2 kids at home. Girls. My little baby girl had to have surgery in her gums at the hospital .I could not be there so my family sent me a picture of her before and after. She is 5. These 2 pictures made me forget about some things and remember again what is important. I thought I would share them. It moved me for some reason to see her happy, and even though not really awake from surgery yet, she was safe.
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I don’t know what your situation is. Maybe harder than mine. Remember, you have a reason to be where you are. You dont get to know all the details.

  • Here is the deal. Money comes and goes, jobs come and go, health comes and goes. Relationships come and go. Kids come and go. Feelings come and go. If you put your security in any of those you have just strapped yourself onto the roller coaster of a lifetime.

 

  • God  is the same yesterday, today and forever and His word will never ever return void. I like that..

In he meantime grab who you can that you love. Focus on things you are good at. Start training that brain to catch the positive things about your life and you. It works.

tj

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

2017 Addiction Series- *

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*** Update***

I apologize for the late start on Addiction 2017- I have been nursing a hangover and dealing with withdrawals. However tomorrow I will lead us on to victory!

tj

 

 

 

After you have read that post, do you know anyone who fits into any of those categories?

 

tj

Addiction Series- TOXIC JUDGEMENT-

                                              Hard Core Truth

 

ATTENTION ADDICTS- THIS ENTIRE SERIES IS DESIGNED TO SERVE YOU. HOWEVER PLEASE INVITE FAMILY AND FRIENDS WHO ARE NOT ADDICTS AS WELL.

THEY WILL ALL BE GETTING SOME EDUCATION-CHECK UP FROM THE NECK UP ON WHAT REALLY GOES ON IN THE ADDICTS WORLD AND THE FACT THAT MOST OF THEM WOULD NOT LAST A WEEK IN THE ADDICTS WORLD. ( In a nice way of course)

      Family members -and others can and do often sabotage the success of the recovering addict. Several reasons, but number one is they are ignorant of the disease. Snap out of it- grow up! I say to you cerebrally challenged folk, lets get a van full and go to al the cancer wards -room to room telling these people to get over it.

Treatment centers suck-I have been there back in the gap. Got some good stuff there. Good connections-for the street life.

Depression and hopelessness- is real and those who keep condemning are grave diggers. This is not a Scared Straigth deal. It is a disease

FUTURE LIFE–  is available but not likely with the lousy system we have. This series will start in a week or maybe 3 days after that. Once per week I wil introduce a new component of addiction and you all give feedback then we try to arrive at the best solution.

There is no set closing date for the group -I don’t care if it goes on for a decade or two. If we don’t get together and education the public and people who word with addicts, it is only getting worse.

The only person that this series would not apply to is the addict that does not care an has no intention of getting free of the bondage they are in. This is a waste of time. We are going to cut through some decades old BS that even well know places like AA have taught. We will look at the chances of an addict really getting free in this system, but we wont stop there.

There are solid treatment centers.

There are families who know how to treat an addict.

There is a way to get help for depression.

There is hope for a new tomorrow.

I am speaking from experience,..( I mean I have this friend…lol )

So if you dont follow me already, just know that everyone in here keeps it all real and legit , we all want growth .

Next update and final in a few days so please jusr tell all of your family and friends -other addicts to follow this blog-

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Out

tj

 

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Mailbag Time! The Questions Only We Dare Answer..

Dear DLMK,

Riddle me this. What do you get when you take 45 – 1 + 8 years and add in 90%?

Joe in Texas

Joe, you have to bring your A game here. Thats not even hard. 

Answer: the amount of felony counts Hillary Clinton should be charged with for lying under oath (44)

8 years? 

Answer: The length of time we put an anti-American, anti God delusional man in the highest office in the country!

90% :

Answer: the amount of intelligence that Donald Trump could lose and still be light years ahead of the delusional president ! Simple.
Dear DLMK,

Why dont you lay off us about leaving the country because Trump was elected? You know we were joking . Plus you came down so hard on Hillary just because she doesnt know how to use email. We are not all techies.Then you jumped on her because she had a little memory lapse about where Benghazi was. Dang she was under fire there remember? Maybe a little slack for PTSD? Have a little respect for our professional and personal track records you m#*th@_.

Signed,

Miley ( anytime/anyone) Cyrus

The very rev. Al ( race-baiter) Sharpton

Cher ( just Cher)

Charlie ( i smoked the biggest rocks of crack ) Sheen

Whoopi (dont be callin me ghetto) Goldberg.

 Dear stars,

I actually got Mr Trump to chime in on this as Im not qualified to debate this.

Mr Trump;

Hello folks. Happy new year to you all. Let me just tell you up front that even though you rallied against me saying you would leave the country if I won, I as an understanding man had already made arrangements for every one of you to be full time employees of mine in whatever country you went to. 

I can never find enough help to sort and stack the 100$ bills that my investments earn daily. You Charlie, in particular, i think you are picking up what Im putting down, from what i hear you are quite experienced at rolling bills up..if you get me.

Rev. Al, you are forever welcome to carry my luggage as I noticed you enjoy jetsetting and quick media.appearances. 

Miley, I also own property in Vegas, perhaps that might suit your, um , personality.

Cher, 

I got you babe.

Whoopi,

Much respect as well. You can work alongside my head housekeeper. Thats no joke either . You have shown your gifts on The View. 

I will always have 2 tickets to paradise for all of you.Heck Ill fly you for free and even get you a quick meet and greet with my pilot. 

Sincerely,

Donald ( but you can call me Mr. PRESIDENT) Trump.

Thanks Mr. President.
Ok people thats it for now. Oh wait, just allow me to give my own shot at humor…its my first time so dont be hard on me..

How do we know for sure.that more then one believes Obama has left one shred of a ” legacy” in 8 years?

Answer, Narcissists have split personalities…thats 2. 

So it was my first try. I thought it was decent. ..

Tj

No Offers To Help From The Vatican Yet- Hmm . I CANNOT BELIEVE IT.

Check This Out- Heck We Could Work Full Time Jobs Forever Just To Shut This Down-

Go Big- Or- Go HOME!!!

Hmm-sounds fair. — Am I wrong here?  WOW-if it wont open I will fix- gotta go

 

Wow already 5 countries have hit me but sadly not Italy-

Oh, wait- that’s right they are trying to BAN police from knowing about any rapes. They promised to investigate- THOROUGHLY-

SCOUTS HONOR!- OH WAIT CANT USE THAT ONE-

You all have got me so fired up my blood is boiling – and I feel like I am waking up from a 20 year coma. When this whole thing is said and done — don’t go anywhere because you will never ever ever believe how all the pieces through the years have made a way to this day. Now it is the rubber meets road and I feel the need for SPEED!

I don’t know exactly how this will specifically unfold but I am telling you now so whenever it does I want you see- the rest..of the story all the way back. I mean you will freak out.

Thanks again-

tj

Romans 8:28 and Jeremy Camp- I still believe.

Those are the 2 things I spoke and listened to every day 20 years ago..that was just the beginning – and man I cant wait to see the ending.

ATTENTION! NEED JUST ONE MORE PIECE! LETS FINISH THIS RIGHT!

Thank you thank you so very much for re-blogging my brothers story. To my amazement this has taken it to yet another level, making it harder for the pedi-priest to slide out of this deal. I NEED TODAY this.

A consultant, businessman, investor, with some media knowledge and who is interested in what may become a very big and wide open investigation to include national syndicated talk shows and all media. Its sitting on the table.

I have not a minute for posers or anyone who has any other intention then to expose the ENTIRE CULT of pedi-priests in general. Of course after watching my brothers killer be locked up. It may involve books media and much else. I have spent 4 years writing about all this praying that one day this freak and others would be exposed.

Please only contact me if you have resources, negotiation skills with media and publishing and other. Financially you will never worry about your investment as we will do this if an agreement is made that is suitable. I can sell my book tomorrow and get paid because my brother is the one in this case involved. But why stop there? I have the connections to put national deals that would turn on a national spotlight long term on ALL these guys.

So if I find the right partner, we will go that route and hopefully make a HUGE dent in this ring. If not I will sell my own story, be happy Gondek is locked up and move on.

We can nab him- and thanks very much.

Or..there are these guys-

http://www.bing.com/images/search?q=picture+of+priests+being+arrested&FORM=HDRSC2&adlt=strict

Anyone else want to vomit?

 

That’s just the bottom line- me – right?? LOL

What is meant to happen will. Thanks to y’all who stepped up. It just took one and I am one step away from immediate and total focus on this. If I wait too long the next news story will get the chance I have. I have 24-48 hour window to at least solidify a partnership.  From there I can secure any national show I feel like it. That, would be awesome. So thanks and if you or someone in your crew that you trust and has what I need contact me 24 hours around the clock starting 6pm tonite. I will be lining up media as I talk to people and Y’all will understand if it works this way –

contact me by email or text first with any reservations-tjpetri16@gmail.com and text 386-675-7549- If you happen to know that you know that you know this is for you if you feel me -just call asap. Praying.

. If you already see and know and have experience in this and want in just call. I really just need a professional to handle all the negotiation and financials and things I don’t even want to know about. If you do your part the opp to pull in long term media to keep this crime exposed is also there. Its truly one of those one of a lifetime deals. The media has to stay with what is hot. Right this moment it is this. It wont be long.

Love you all for helping-

tj

 

 

 

STOP! He Was 23. Finally Accomplishes His Dream. Degree In Hand. Applies For It  Commits Suicide Before Ever Starting. This Is My Personal Family Incident. I Need You Now. Read.

Sexual Abuse Suicide. Open Investigation NOW!

 

I’m about to share with you my brother Danny’s life and death story and how yet another pedi-priest is still in the pulpit after molesting someone. If you have ever read me, you know 3 things

1- I’m transparent about my life. Where I’m wrong I gladly admit. When I fall I admit I fell, but I always get back up.

2- -I could not care less if I impress anybody and I don’t count followers. I don’t even use free SEOs. The right people will find this if it will help them.

3-I speak what I believe and boldly. However I’m very aware that I may be the most flawed of us all and I’m not here to judge.

So, with that I will mention that I could use your help today for a personal family matter. However it’s all over.If you have read my biography you know that my brother committed suicide . Also that a priest named Father Al Gondek groomed, doomed, and tombed him. Like a textbook pediphile.

Danny went to high school at a Catholic school even though we are not Catholic. It was a zoning issue. Over his last 2 years he became pretty attached to the priest there. At that time I was not formally trained as a social worker and had none of the 20 years experience I now have living with and working with victims of sexual abuse.

I thought it was odd that this priest was so wanting to establish trust with Danny, and even us by having Danny invite him for dinner. I was glad when my brother left the state for college to pursue a degree in criminal justice. It just felt good to see some distance between them. About 4 years later he did it. He came home and immediately applied to the local police department. It was in the mail. The kid did it. Just had to take the tesrs and all.

It’s 4th of July that year and he is sitting next to me  in another chair watching an episode of “In The Heat Of The Night”.  It happened to have to do with a guy who had been groomed as a kid , molested, then as he got older realized what had taken place . He hung himself.

A few minutes later Danny stood up, went to the kitchen and made a sandwich. I noticed he took just a bite or two then decided to leave it there . He came back through the living room where I was and casually looked over his shoulder back at me and said  ” I’m going for a walk ”

OK. No biggie. He’s  grown up right? So I fell asleep. A few hours later maybe 2am I woke up and went to lock up.

I looked outside and saw his car so assumed he had cone back and crashed in his room while I slept. I checked but nope.

I woke my mom and asked her if maybe while I was sleeping he had decided to stay at a friend’s or something . Three hours is just too long of a walk. She had some uncanny mother thing going on even as she was barely getting her eyes open .She right away got up and started outside and I followed.

She went left and I went right. We lived in a very wooded area. It was not but a few minutes before I heard a scream I think only a mom could produce.I hope none of you all ever have to experience it.

As it turned out Danny had gone out for his ” walk ” and put a bullet in his head. He left a note saying he loved us and put his cross on from a recent Christian retreat.

WHAT??? This kid is just about to live his dream! What would ever cause him to end his life right before it started? I only knew to go to his room and look for some clue. For a moment I thought I had it figured I bet he got rejected from the police academy. Dang. How heartbreaking. But why kill youraelf?

But then I noticed a chest in his closet . Big and wooden with a padlock . Hmm. What is that? A few minutes later after getting it open I grabbed large handful of letters neatly stacked.

So I glanced at the content and it turns out they were on the romantic side . Maybe he had a secret girl friend who just broke up with him.My sister noted one line that said ” I miss your touch “. But before I could think anymore I looked down for a signature.

WITH LOVE,

AL

ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?

These letters were from none other then Father Albert Gondek. For 4 years the pedi-priest had kept Danny on the line. But being out of state my brother could just put them away and not face  ” Al “.

However coming back home as a man and facing reality was much harder obviously because much like the twenty something guy we both watched hang himself on television, Danny had no idea how to deal with what he had just figured out. Too late . From the letters it was clear that the scumbag had had inappropriate physical contact with him over the years. Exactly what I don’t know. I don’t want to know.

What a waste , right? Here is where you and your friends and their friends can do to help to start bringing attention to  Gondek and all the others doing the same. You see the Catholic church doesn’t fire pedi-priest’s too often. It’s all about relocating . Like a chess board. Keep moving them around. When Danny died would you believe that just out of coincidence the Father was moved out to North Carolina?

Oh and there’s this other side note that to date the Catholic Church has paid out around SIX BILLION (B) Dollars to avoid going to trials. It’s happening all over. I don’t know if pediphiles become priests or priests become pediphiles.

Either way if you have kids as I do, there are oh so many things I have thought about what I would do if it happened one of my little girls. I can’t even print it .I personally think the odds are pretty good that if you allow a small child with a priest for any length of time that you are shooting about 50/50 odds on whether it will be a safe visit. I’m just going by the numbers.
So first thing here is that I have actually heard from a few people over the years who read me and suspected the same joker  Gondek of touching their child. However it was about a year ago when a member with some authority in the actual church he was transferred to in North  Carolina happened upon my blog . She contacted me and sure enough the good father was at it again. They suspected and actually had testimony of at least 8 boys being molested but what next? We have kept in touch and don’t ya know that just a few days ago an investigative reporter from the very same state -North Carolina ” happened” upon my blog and saw that name again. This time it means something. As of a month or two ago Father Albert Gondek who I personally have seen what he can and will do to young men, is under investigation for molesting 8-10 or so ( that they know about) young boys.

Funny thing , the first one that spoke up was recently deported to Mexico. What an amazing coincidence. However not before giving his testimony on all 8 boys he witnessed Gondek molest.

So here is what I’m asking;

For the sake of the millions of little children that are going to be sent into that same hell soon, can we ban together just for the sake of all the kids we could protect?

You see we cannot  “unmolest” kids. That is damage that is always there.  Send this to everyone you know. Ask everyone who may have had contact with Gondek or ANY priest who may be inappropriate with kids. Now is the time. You don’t have the media’s full attention much-But thank God I now have, for a brief time a contact to the man who can make the world see this. Short window folks. Its now or likely never again we have this chance. Don’t blow it off. An investigation has started and if we work together we can have full media exposure. If we blow it off Gondek will be giving baths to little boys again soon and probably get a raise for his stress…

I have an open invite right now to contact a person who has the authority to shine a bright light on this issue. So do it just because it’s right . Do it for the little ones facing what my brother did. If we even saved 10 or 40 or. 1000 kids by making this known can you imagine how awesome it would be? . Help me start addressing this. Right now it’s in North Carolina. I need all of you in my crew in or out of the USA to do whatever you can. 

North Carolina is where they sent Gondek after he did my brother in. So if you are there great. No matter where you are- trust me when I tell you it is unthinkable what can so easily come from what these freaks treat as play toys. And it’s happening all over the world. The media we have the ear of today is North Carolina . However please report any incident in any location because they will follow it until it dies. It’s up to us.

Contact me ASAP at tjpetri16@gmail.com if you know of anything. I will forward it to the media with or without your info. You tell me. Let’s just put pediphiles where they belong. It’s really more of their style anyway.

So. Whatcha gonna do? There’s a window. It’s open now. ..

Peace

Tj

Danny Joel Petri

4/20/1968-7/4/1991 – Love you my man. See you when I see you .

Father Albert Gondek. Promoted to another state and on paid leave. Still living. Pathetic. I will never stop until you get your turn.