Attention Anyone Who Has An Affiliation With A Group Of ESE or Developmentally Disabled Students..Enter This Contest!

If you are a teacher, a counselor, a special education assistant or involved in any way with teens who have special needs related to a psychiatric diagnoses, or any condition which has a ” tag ” attached to it. Any group of teens who have been put on a certain group due to their limitations.

Don’t Label My Kid! has been in existence around five years. The goal has always been to educate, train and follow up with families on their needs, starting with mental health, behavioral health, and addictions. It has evolved into an outright initiative to wherever and whenever we could. Now we would like to give the teens a chance to officially speak their minds about how being constantly identified by their label, tag or weak areas has affected their daily lives both in and out of school.

We are calling on leaders , advocates, guidance counselors, teachers, or anyone working with this population. What we are doing is offering groups of teens, whether a classroom, or a group home, a hospital and all other venues a chance to have your voice heard right here on your own post on Don’t Label My Kid! .

We want the world t know what it’s like from your perspective. An adult must coordinate the effort and it would be a great class project! Take part in the initiative against labeling.

Eventually we want a permanent column weekly where your class would submit an article for approval to our staff, and have it published for thousands of people to see!

Details will come after we know who wants to take part in this on going effort to give kids a voice.

For more info the teacher or leader needs to email tim@dontlabelmykid.com with your contact info! Down the road there may be opportunities for being a guest on a podcast and much more.

Let’s hear from y’all soon!

Tj

I Have Experienced This In Real Life , Losing My Brother To Suicide. Never Take Loved Ones For Granted…Watch This Reminder…

Don’t be in the wrong end of a phone call like this man gets…

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So I Did A Good Deed And Rescued A Cat…But…

First I found out my new cat Jordy hates the paparazzi. No love for the camera or the cameraman at all.

(See video clip)

Then I thought well that’s probably normal. I’ll just lay him down on the couch and teach him few commands from his master.

It all started good with a nice lifting up and picture taking time of my new pet. But soon after I found out that he was teaching me the rules. When we laid down he was fine when I talked about rewards and food. However as you can see each time I spoke of any rule , his paws seemed to get very close to my j

Did You Know That Wealthy People Are Less Happy Than The Average Joe? This Post Goes With My Last Post On Career Or Job…Read Both…

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Problem Solved..Humor

I heard so many weird sounds in my truck yesterday I knew something was wrong .

However , after looking at my bank account I decided to just turn the radio up real loud.

Ha Ha! Watch This Man Try An ” Amazing Feat Of Strength” Only To Have His Friend Reveal His Trick!

It looks like he almost hadñj

the crowd going for a minute! Lol!

You need to press the arrow for it to play once you open it..

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Set Your Own Limits- Check Out This Slide Slow!

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When Ladies Became Tramps…And Why?

There is something I have noticed over the years that has recently troubled me. More so in the last decade or so and it may have something to do with the fact that I now have girls of my own after 10 years with just boys. At any rate it doesnt matter when it all started happening- it just did. It still is happening, if that is even possible.

Im talking about the fact that women as a whole have devalued themselves, by the way they dress, talk and most importantly how they think about themselves. They have permitted a change of mindset that should have never occurred.

There are so many ways to approach this topic so Im going to break it down only in the areas of expertise that I have. Theories of personality, human behavior and the transitions that occur at certain ages. Those are good starting points.

When I was in middle / high school hitting a girl for ANY reason just did not occurr. Period. There was good reason for it too. If any male was to lay a hand on a girl you better believe there would be a very intense talking to by 3-4 guys after school to refresh your memory on that whole deal works.  And you got only 1 warning. The ” intense meeting” after school may have left a boy with a black eye or something, but that was just a warning shot. I dont think I saw more than 3-4 boys repeat the act in all my years and I promise you those boys still remember that day as it would be hard to forget. The second go around the mountain was disturbing to even think of. It was not tolerated.

Thats how we were brought up.

The girls of the world just starting allowing more and more violence against them. if I fast forward to today, it actually has totally reversed itself from how things were. What do I mean by that? Brace yourself ..

If you are involved in social media at all you will likely at some point run across a little post of a 16 year old girl with a black eye- BRAGGING that that her ” man” beat her down for stepping out of line or some garbage like that. Actually proud of the mark that they have-from a man who keeps her in line like an animal.. Is that twisted or what?

I could go on forever but let me bring this to a close and perhaps readdress it later. The bottom line here is called self esteem. The complete loss of one’s own identity because they have been beaten down emotionally and physically to the point that the only identity left to chase is the one their abusers have drilled in their head. 

You may also see this in the form of a person trying to act as if they were a different color, race,  culture even the way they talk or walk just in order to fit in with a certain identity or group that has nothing to do with who they really are.

That happens all day to girls from 12-50. No one is immume. There is only one way to heal that, and its a process of helping a wounded person to get their thinking straight and instilling in them that their securty, hope and confidemce does not come from any person, money, job, looks, but that their creator is their source. That source never leaves, never tires, always uplifts and sets them up for success not failure.

We have a sick twisted society where young woman are starting to lose their self esteem from so much abuse, and begin to act as if the way some boys treated them was somehow deserved . They began to settle for just not too many beatings, they started living out what the coward boys would tell them they are. 

I could not nor would I put pictures of whats going each day, but below is just a random picture found on line. Its very , very tame compared to what Im talking about, but even when I was in school, any girl who walked the halls doing that would have thought of as a slut. Todays its just normal.

Then, just as disgusting and oh so pitiful is our new generation of ” Im outing myself as a she/man because Im really a woman locked inside.” They may look like this ..

This just in buddy. If you drop your drawers and your still not sure who are, you need an eye doctor or a psychiatrist, or both. Its really not that diffiicult to identify. There are beans and a frank or not. Thats your test on how God made you.

So if you are a parent with a child going through something that you have not been able to help, as always contact me and we can discuss a Dont Label My Kid! Family Plan.

Tim@dontlabelmykid.com

Can Anyone Tell Me Where The ” Hope” Comes In With My Mental Health & Addiction World?

The times we look out a window and wonder what it is that all those people have in their lives that gives them the audacity to smile. Who said its fair that I have to avoid most people simply because I don’t have what it takes to return a smile or answer a question like ” how are you “.

I don’t even know how I will open my mouth at lunch to take a bite of a sandwich, that is if I eat today. 
It all seems kind of rude honestly. It seems like a sick pathetic joke that I have to fight myself just to get dressed and out the door to work while everyone else seems to be chirping away like birds in the spring. All the while I’ll bet I’m the only one who has to waste time on a shrink that does me no good. 

What a moron I am. Seriously . I’m at a crossroads these days about the whole  ” god ” thing as well. I feel on the brink of just pronouncing a “no god” allowed in my life statement out of  my anger, or maybe do like many are doing and turn atheist

The other day I was so angry at God that I played every song on Ac/Dc’s Hells Bells album 5x and played “Sympathy For The Devil” by Jagger and them like half dozen times. Maybe if God was real He could feel a little pain for once.

But that’s when my friend told me that he had the same feelings as I did months ago, and started meetimg with this cool new spiritual enlightenment group of people my age. They decide what “god” they will actually become! How awesome is that?


He told me that lots of people were trying to get in the group but he could get me in. He told me not to pay attention to the naysayers..they were just jealous.

When I told my shrink about my new found friends he starting asking me if I was hearing any voices or anything . Wow, this guy thought I made it all up! What a loser! I’m pouring my heart out and smiling for the first time in a year and he has to be the dream killer. 

Just a month later the group moved away but didn’t tell me. I’m so depressed . I’m not sure I have any reason to go on. I’ve no girlfriend, no family., no real friends, and all I want to do is go get high . 

I went down by the prairie path which is a little trail inbetween hundreds of acres of orange groves. That’s where you get whatever drug you need down here. The dealers basically set up shop in the middle and no cops can see them, hear.them or find them . Just too many ways out. I scored some zanny bars, a bag or two of H, and a few oxy 80s…

Then, I Bounced back home to a nice empty house to chillax..

I figured once I was good and ragged out all the pieces would come together for me. So I stayed high for 3-4 days or so. Noboby knew, my parents were on an anniversary trip and hell I’m 19 anyway. I can roll with whoever I please.


About a week later I felt the shake of a strong hand, and when I looked up from the floor I was passed out on, I saw my dad looking down at me with tears rolling down his face. He saw my needles other junk and smelled me since I hadn’t showered. I was ready for it all. The old ” get outta my house ” screams , and the belittling that I saw on television all the time between parents and their children.

But it never came. Just some amazing grace As a matter of fact, my father looked into my eyes and never took his eyes off  mine. He began to weep and put his arms around me. He asked me if there is anything he could do for me or get right now. I knew my father was a strong Christian and we never had any major fall outs before, but I didn’t expect this when he caught me using drugs in his house. I did not expect absolute 100% unconditional love and mercy. But I learned later on that its that very save unconditional live that should be drawing people to their heavenly Father.its the key that unlocks our desire to obey.

We embraced for several minutes without saying a word and soon my father said to go pack a bag. “I want to take you somewhere.”

 A little while later and we were off driving away in his jeep, I had no idea where we were going to go, but as we begin to drive, he began to explain to me. Where  you are, headed. he said ”  i’ve never had the problems that you have right now ” and dont know what it feels like.

But whatever you need and wherever we have to go, I’ll be by your side, I’ll never leave you from the beginning of this journey until it’s over. Hours later we ended up at a log cabin way up in the mountains that his buddy owned and let him use for the weekend. 

We spent some time there just him and talking about life about how we felt about God,  about problems and how today’s world is a very difficult. But again even though he let me vent about how I felt and how my problems felt so big-  he didn’t pretend to understand them but he was desperately trying to find somebody who did.

He made a promise to me that day that he wasn’t going to leave my side during the entire ordeal as long as it took for me to feel better. He was going to find somebody with inside information on the process of mental health and addiction. A person that could minister to me better than anybody else.

we spent quite a bit of time in that cabin and he did find me somebody that I could relate to and we did work through many of the issues-  it did make me feel a whole lot better. Not cured , but much better . Not finished yet but I possessed something I had not in a long time..

Hope

All the learning I did those weeks with the help of a person who had been through it, I can truly say that it was just a few paragraphs spoken by dad to me at the end of our trip that have stuck with me and saved me from falling into deep depression again..

Dad said this;

Money comes and goes, jobs come and go. Health comes and goes , cars too. Even relationships , spouses come and go while on this earth. Look for peace and hope in those and you will live a rollar coaster life. 

But the Lord is the same yesterday , today and forever!

If you put all your security, trust and hope in Him, you will never do without peace.

And now in closing I.present you all with the entire point of this post.

What, oh what can we offer to those in distress as told above if we ourselves don’t have the peace of the Lord to share? Nothing eternal, nothing any bigger then the latest mind over matter seminar , correct? 

The answer to the title of this post is HOPE.. For without HOPE where does the strength to go on come from ? 


Tj

 





Sharia Kids Watch Dad Murder Mom – ” Its All Good “- She Deserved It…

Dad puts two in the chest of kid”s mom right in front of them..

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“Its Not About The Nail” Funniest Short Relationship Clip Ever ( 1:41 ) And My All Time Favorite…Must See! Must See!

Absolute Best Relationship Clip Ever-

 

 

Addiction 2017- Questions About Addiction Being A Real Disease? Listen To Dr. Kelly…

As you all know I am extremely cautious about who I recommend to people when it comes to mental health, therapy and addiction. As a matter of fact in 4 years I think this may be the first time I’ve posted anything for you that I fully trusted as accurate. You may remember recently I did however post a copy of a LinkedIn post where there were 83 different opinions all from addictions specialists about how to treat 1 person. That is scary..

..Dr.Kelly and his Institute do excellent and trustworthy work, not influenced by any drug companies or the like. Feel free to read through their site..

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Sometimes You Have Got To Think Outside Of The Box…Nothing Else Cuts It..

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Meantime, Glaucoma And Seizure Complaints Have Tripled Among Seniors…

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Your Kindergartener- Coming To A Classroom Near You … Gay Marriage, Then Gender Identity & Oral Sex On The Menu Soon..

It almost seems surreal. It is surreal. I hope Jesus comes back soon. 

They dont even talk about straight marriage in kindergarten, or sex. Why the rush to jam.the sinful life down their throats? They afraid they don’t get enough in public each day?

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