Just When I Think I Had Seen It All…Let Your Kid Choose To Be ” Tommy ” or ” Tammy “. Words Fail Me.

The world is quickly becoming one big reality show, at the expense of our children, even. Our children.

Not everyone should have a parent permit. Period.

 

http://americanoverlook.com/video-lesbian-parents-black-11-year-old-sons-hormones/10940

 

DLMK

CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE FOR SALE- AT ANY COST

CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE FOR SALE- AT ANY COST

The Super Bowl. Football. Family. Food. The Super Bowl is also said to be a time where there are many other games being played other than football. It is not an easy transition by any stretch so to get to the point, perverts and child sex traffickers also have their own sick and twisted way of using this event to continue on in what is said to be a huge international epidemic, the actual transfer and sale of young boys and girls to be shipped off to an area where they will be raped, tortured and to a place that will take any chance at childhood innocence form hundreds of thousands of children all over the world.
CAN IT BE?
It is beyond the scope any person with any set of morals or sense of right and wrong. It is not drugs, arms, or products that are being sold here. These are little children, forced into a hell on earth, for profit. Big Business. $$$$$$$. Perverts, pedophiles, predators, businessmen, all in the game and according to even some small town reports, it is BIG news and a BIG problem.

If you are a parent, and you hurt your child- shame on you. If you are a parent and you SELL your child…I cannot say what should be done to you . Not on here anyhow. I have been learning more and more about this seemingly quiet epidemic each month and the more I learn the more sick I feel. First as a parent it is inconceivable to actually think of this. Second, as a professional social worker I am ashamed at what is happening. Third, as a human being I am simply in awe at the level my own people in my own country alone will drop to in the name of money.
Recently I have contacted some good guys that are making a difference through awareness trainings and many other helpful services to try and curb this hideous crime.
To be writing about this makes me sick, but we can no longer turn a blind eye to these things and pretend all is well. It is NOT well and YOUR friends and neighbors could be ” ordering ” a child as we speak. It is happening every day, men are flying across the country to meet up with an 8 or 9 year old girl or boy, to rob them of their innocence and introduce them to the most horrific torture they have ever known, and in many cases the parents are offering their children for a price. A price? You mean exchange the rape and torture of my daughter for money? No way a parent could do that, right?
All day everyday all over the world it is happening. A Georgia (USA) small town paper held a community awareness event to shed some light to this in their own back yard. If you read the attached article you will get chills if you have any moral code. If you actually value and care about our children, it may make you sick in your stomach. It should.
I am following up with some contacts from the Florida Governors office and also other US contacts to see what we all can do and will share the information. In the meantime, lets do all we can to stop this and put these perverted criminals behind bars or just take them out by the death penalty and be done with this. There is NO excuse for child abuse, NO excuse for us to allow this to continue in our back yards.
If you are a resource or have information on community awareness please post the information. In the meantime I think we have a duty to place these lives above even drug trafficking and arms trafficking, dare I say. After all it is running up there in $$ right with the drug trafficking and arms according to the data I have viewed. I say make it # 1 on the priority list and now. These our kids here we are talking about. Since you have read this article hundreds of little children have been raped. How fast can we help? If you are not a follower of this blog, please hit the follow button on here so you be updated as I am. This is serious.

DLMK-

http://www.thecitizen.com/articles/02-04-2014/%E2%80%98end-human-trafficking-now%E2%80%99-confab-warns-%E2%80%98sexual-slavery%E2%80%99-epidemic

“Pro-choicers”: here’s why you cannot support abortion while opposing puppy murder

Another excellent post by Matt Walsh- KILL BABIES – BUT NOT PUPPIES? Excellent job Matt!

DLMK-

Pedophiles Are Everywhere ; Parents Should Be Too…

Pedophiles Are Everywhere ; Parents Should Be Too...

Pedophiles seem to get away with much more damage and much more heinous crimes than others, and it is not getting any better. Nobody really likes to discuss the subject, as if it will fade into oblivion if we omit these unspeakable acts from our daily conversations. Ironic to me, as a parent and as a social worker since the most hurtful and dangerous violations of human beings are committed over and over and nobody seems to be jumping out of their skin out of concern.
I could be missing something, and I know there are groups out there working hard to catch these predators – it just never seems enough to me. I mean as a parent alone I cannot express with words how angry I get at the idea of someone violating innocence so casually and selfishly. I cannot ever justify or rationalize this particular issue. It haunts me and I am concerned that people are so easily passing their children around like hot cakes from one person to another and trusting anyone who ” seems nice” to watch their children.
I see teachers, police officers, counselors, youth pastors, and many others quietly arrested for these incredibly horrible crimes all day long all over the country, and yet I feel like I am the only one worried about it.
I still remember the day that they found little Jessica L. in Florida, buried in a trash bag, filled with holes from her trying to scratch her way out while dying underground after being raped over and over. She was maybe 7 or 8 years old.
It breaks my heart when I hear about these things, and especially when I am daily seeing more and more predators moving near schools and parks, for a clear view of plenty of kids. Out of the very tiny amount we do catch, we are letting them off with light sentences? Really? Are you kidding me?
It is time we get serious about these child killers and actually give them the attention they deserve. I know I do. I will. I am always on the lookout. I do not leave my children with just anybody, and be sure that I would much rather find that I had left my child with about anybody other than a pedophile. I would much rather stick needles in my eyeballs than leave them with anyone I was unsure of, but child predators are totally on my radar. It does not get any uglier or hideous than this lowest of all deeds in my book. It isn’t just old uncle Joe who is secretly molesting little Johnny or Suzy once a year . It is their teacher, their youth worker, their person of trust in their life and worse than I can imagine , sometimes it is even their own parent.
Pedophile are not all one eyed and wearing pony tails like the creature in the photo here. They look like you. Professional. Outgoing and popular but with a secret, a secret that could change your family forever if you allow it to.
We cannot screen every person that ever interacts with our children, but we sure can take the time to be where they are when we can. It is difficult logistically sometimes, we get tired and have other things to get done.
However, gone are the days of letting your child roam the park while you read a book on the other side. You have to follow their lead, be the eyes they need and the ear they need to protect them. How many more children need to get raped and tortured before we take this seriously.
Please, if you err, let it be on the side of caution. I would rather have someone tell me I am over cautious than find one of my children missing.

DLMK

Sexual Offender Lives Across From School!

Sexual Offender Lives Across From School!

I am going to get a little personal and laconic here at the same time. First, I am not the judge of anyone. Second, I hold myself accountable just as my friends hold me accountable for things I say, or do etc…I realize that we all have things to work on, areas we could be better in. This is not a judgment, but I post this as a parent, a human being, a counselor who has seen the dark side and the consequences of what I am sharing here.

I understand (not condone) why people drink to excess. I understand (not condone) why people use drugs. I get why some people have quick tempers and even can see where people are taught to imitate certain negative behaviors as they grow up in households full of turmoil. I know and have worked with teens who join gangs, and I have come to relate to their situations (not condone).

With this said, I am about to say something I need to word carefully, as my emotions have already got me typing quickly and wanting to get this out there now. I have seen this in hundreds of my clients and even in my own family. The one area or type of behavior I cannot justify. I cannot rationalize. I cannot condone under any circumstance. The most vile, hideous, horrific action a person could take against another, and in this post not just another person, but babies and little children.

I wish I could spew another paragraph of vitriol about the people who do these things, but this is where the controlling my emotions part comes in. I am trying to maintain a casual, laid back approach to a problem that makes my blood boil. As a human it disgusts me. As a parent I would go to prison if one of mine were a victim. I have no problem saying that, and I would make sure anyone hurting my child in that way would suffer greatly. Long, and painful. So this is me being upfront about a subject that has affected many thousands each day, and is on the rise. Pedophilia. Sexual predators. I cannot trust anyone with my daughters anymore. I see a certain look in the eyes of the abusers, the ones I have met, and the ones on line that I keep an eye on. There is a different look in the eyes of those who prey on little children for sexual pleasure. It is a sickening look that makes one look in their eyes feel as if you were on the set of the exorcist-or maybe makes one feel like they are in the presence of a demon. People who rape and murder children CANNOT BE human…is what I think many times. At any rate, this is another example of how we set our kids up for failure, and these predators up for another round. We let these guys out early, let them work around kids, and pay more attention to white collar petty crimes than we do these monsters. If you have not watched an episode of Dateline MSNBC ” To Catch A Predator ” – you should commit to at least one episode. It will blow your mind. Here is an interesting article to ponder. What would you think?

High School Suspends Teen Porn Star…Good Call.

High School Suspends Teen Porn Star…Good Call.

 

An 18 year old Florida high school student was suspended after it was discovered that he was involved in on-line adult porn sites, as an actor. He is 18 and claims he did no wrong and did not break the law. He gets excellent grades and is never in trouble.

His own mother says he is being the  ” Man of the House ” by supporting her in this way. How do you feel about the school suspending him, do to being a  ” major disruption ” to others?

Here is a case of morality and disruption versus legal rights. But would YOU allow this if you were the school administrator or even the mother? I think it was a good call to suspend myself.