It Must Be Getting Heavy For The JV To Take These Thrashings One After The Other…Tap Out Already. (Part 1/2)

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Dang It! Ok Here…

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It’s got to feel like you don’t even speak the same language, for these Libs to keep attempting to even pick up the table scraps from the likes of her and the rest…a real pity. Go home while you can rookie.
It has happened to all of us at some point or another. We belabor a point. We regurgitate the same information and feed it back to ourselves again and again until we realize we just continue to vomit and reload the poison. Hopefully we catch the lesson and go home. We wake up the next day and pray that the 4th grade will be better.

I actually am surprised to see the above clip at this point in time. i mean, I must admit that ever since witnessing the whole Hillary for President charade, the embarrassing lies, inability to point out the place where she took ” heavy fire” on a map and the mental breakdowns after hr loss, I thought we had seen the last of that type of meltdown. Yet something inside me could not help but notice a very unusual trait in both the first loser in the race for President, and pretty much the rest of the JV team.
I saw the distinct and clear-absence of shame. I picked up on the almost superpower of one human to not just illustrate for the world what Borderline Personality looks like -but to lie and project without any appearance of even a slight hesitation. It was as if any shred of moral skin had been seared and there were now no rules, no boundaries at all -and with complete inner peace.
That is a dangerous place to be.


The Speaker has mastered the art of ” I truly believe what I am saying” face…

It matters not who the tool is that steps up to the big league plate with a whifall- bat full of holes. The playbook is the same, the outcome is the same, and the only thing that changes is the amount of obedient sheep the batter can keep on the team. The lies always have to get bigger and more dramatic, to outdo the ones from the week before. The projection seems to increase to the point where even some of your own are caught chuckling -until they realize you really are trying to sell this one!

I was not sure how I would approach this topic when it felt right to tackle it. One, if they allow themselves to, could get truly caught up in the hundreds of individual pieces to the greater puzzle and write endlessly on the same material regifted in even weaker and more rank material.

No, I have been careful to stay on task in my observation and not allow myself to miss the shift in paradigm, not to glance away, even for a moment when this moment came. The moment? Oh, I simply mean when the routine is officially spent. Not that the people would not continue to ” Wag The Dog” for another mile, but that the routine could not sustain itself any longer.

Its when so many lies have been told they begin to act as hidden explosive devices all around you, and you have no record of them all. It is when nobody actually moved to Canada. It happens when the pairing off of your accusations against the President so very much define the exact actual behavior of your team, that when you utter the attempted sling, your own crew goes silent and starts looking at their feet.

It occurs when you accuse your excellent leader of the same crimes and hideous betrayals of this country that your own leader actually committed when he got a shot. It is just too damn close to that shadow, too much like what you were a part of to try and cast to another. Even when you have mastered the body language, the sincerity and false concern, your words simply carry more weight then even your mouth can haul.

Words like ” impeachment” which come so easily in the JV locker room, just do not sail as smoothly when launched at man with actual character. It may fit the bill on your team, but it is even too much for your best soldiers to truly buy. It is pressing the envelope, wearing out your verbal privilege, over -extending your grace period of bullshit.

The result of running this game too long is that you begin to feel, and we begin to see all the things that were meant to stay ” secret”. Strategies are exposed, plans backfire, you get sloppy, and everyone at the same time realizes that although we likely will not cross party lines and jump into an agreeing group huddle, we all know what time it is. The lines are a little harder to remember for you all, the effect is just not the same, and the peanut gallery on the left that you so took for granted is slowly but steadily leaving you.

At the same time, the accused, in this case relentlessly since day one, can finally get the opportunity to speak, and when he does-it stings. For example today when the speaker made a valiant effort at trying to use the greatest President in a long time an the ” I ” word in the same sentence, it was met with a quiet but powerful reply from her leader-

” We must remember I did not do anything wrong either.”

That is NOT the point Mr. President! LOL…

This is the result of the game, and whether it is dragged out or put down quickly, like a sick animal, the ship sinks. The tide makes sure of it, and in this case the tide is strong and without hesitation. So we will see this as a country as the pieces have crumbled more rapidly and often then ever as Sarah once again was forced to remind.

There is another part however to the great mystery of the CCP (Cerebral Capacity Gap) between the left and right, those with a gauge for wrong and right, and those seemingly have absolutely no boundaries or limits to their darkness. The difference between people who can watch and support the shredding of a human baby from his or her mother’s womb, but on the same breath support the right to life for the caterpillar and the sea turtle egg?

Is this difference purely political? A difference in mindset? Or perhaps is there a spiritual aspect involved? It is a very worthwhile discussion, and one I will address in the next post in this snapshot of how I see things today. However we cannot mix the already discussed tactics, and miss the forthcoming story as it unfolds, with matters of the heart and of the light & darkness. Let’s pay attention to the inning we are in and see just how well a play was called by a lying, apathetic, corrupt and pitiful excuse for Americans.

Stay Tuned,

Tj

Man It Is Refreshing To Have An American President…

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Take Our Guns Away Please. This Way Only The Bad Guys Have Them.

I don’t get too involved in many issues I have no control over and politics that are not going to be affected by the voice of the people. However, ” Gun Control” is one issue that I have to chime in on. The reason is because I feel we the people actually have a shot ( pun intended) at setting some issues to rest once and for all with our new administration.

When Obama was in office, anyone who paid any attention could see that something very wrong was going on when he made a big push to restrict Americans from owning weapons. He was doing this while at the same time he was writing checks to the muslim brotherhood for amounts like 2 BILLION dollars as ” gifts “. When you send your enemy or a group that wants to harm you a boat load of money, there is a pretty good chance they will take advantage of this by making their position against their enemies stronger. This proved to be true when the brotherhood bought more arms with our taxpayer money, courtesy of our ” leader”. They loaded up on automatic weapons.

You don’t need to be Colombo to crack that one. Obama trying to make us a weaker nation while doing all in his power to strengthen groups of terrorists who love to slaughter us and sharia us to death. I am still not sure that the Obama followers ever really got this, or maybe they did but they did not think it would matter.

That’s the international picture and how politics can play into it when you have a terrorist in office of the president.

In today’s national picture and with all the school shootings and violence, I was breathing a sigh of relief when I heard our American president is thinking our victims like teachers should be able to defend themselves against any student vigilantes or teens who are shooting up schools. I don’t know that in the end every teacher will be packing an AR-15 in class, but we are looking in the right direction. Equipping the victims, not making it easier for criminals to be sure they will not have to deal with return fire when robbing, stealing or shooting schools up.

So I just want to encourage all of you, even if you despise guns, to consider something:If we start taking guns away from people in an attempt to slow down crime, we are only making it EASIER for the bad guys to continue on with their bullying. You don’t have to like guns or have a whole collection but I believe in the times we live in you are absolutely kidding yourself if you think that taking guns away from private citizens would do anything but worsen the problem.

Look at it this way, obesity is a huge issue in today’s world. People everywhere are dying from obesity related issues.

What if the Surgeon General announced today that he was banning all Forks? After all, less forks mean less eating right?

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Perhaps DUI rates are up so high that the government announces NO MORE CARS!

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You would say that is silly correct? It’s no different from what taking guns away from people would be like. After all, forks don’t kill, cars don’t kill. People kill. And so it goes with guns. It’ our constitutional right and it is common sense..

tj

Liberals Show Their Colors Too Early On State Of The Union. Hard To Believe They Are Not Ashamed Of Themselves, Yet Again.

I really don’t like politics. However as of late, when I realized we had a muslim brotherhood member in office, I vowed to start listening and learning more. Last night was Trump’s first State of the Union address, and I tuned in to try to understand more of what both sides are fighting about, both conservatives and liberals. I wanted to come in with an open mind and a willingness to hear commentaries from both sides.

I never got the chance. You see the members of the network I tuned in to gave such a pre speech cut down of what was to come, trying to washout any value in the speech before it was even given, that they lost my ear. I had to avoid listening to too much pre speech moaning and whining about the president . I felt like I was back in 3rd grade on the playground and the class bully was threatening to take their ball and go home unless they got to play the position they wanted, and cheat along the way just because they had the ball. Before we even started.

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After the speech was over I was expecting some ” shoe in mouth” reaction by the liberals to save face because the speech turned out so well. However, my hopes were popped like a balloon as I listened to them complain about such moronic issues that once again I was amazed anyone actually paid them to be there and talk. Childish behavior.

1- It was too long . Whaaaaaa

2-The first lady came in by herself without the President. ( Duh, that’s just the order of the program), and despite what the NBC critics said in yet another desperate attempt to find a flaw with the president – it does not mean there is ” trouble in paradise” for the couple.

Idiots.

3- The president ” took advantage” of some sensitive stories like the guy with no legs, the families who lost a daughter to street violence and a few others. ( Hey guys, it’s better than pimping rapper Jay-z and Beyonce at the white house gigs like Obama did.) What are you thinking ” taking advantage of this”? Because he gave props and prayers to the families that have suffered?

You can’t fix stupid I guess.

4-The President clapped when everyone else did, so this must mean he thinks he is better than us all. ( Hey people, should he have brought a pocket game boy to play during the cheering? What leader does not join in celebrating success with his/ her people?)

5-His huge tax break is up in 2027. (Duh, so will his terms).

6-He was selling himself, Donald Trump.

(I am sorry to inform you that just because he happens to be the record-breaking president in taking action when he said he would and fulfilling promises he made does not mean he was ” selling himself” . He was cheering for our progress as a country.

I could keep going and going but I won’t. You get the idea. The bottom line is I never got to evaluate policy and learn how he is doing on the issues too much because the liberal media was so busy throwing stones that I could not get to it. My evaluation is that it was one of the most hopeful and encouraging fact filled speeches that I have heard in a long time and for sure better than anything that EVER came out of the muslim brotherhood representative we had in there for 8 years.

Donald Trump is not Jesus. None of us are. So he that hath no sin, cast the first stone. Everyone else,

Shut your pie hole.

I still love all my democrat and liberal friends. As a matter of fact I even pray for you all! However the 3rd grade name calling and behavior has got to stop if you truly love the USA. It isn’t about you. it is about all of us. The election is over and you should be too.

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Tj

The Irony Of Some Things…

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Trump Is A Machine…But Not An ATM…

Love him or love him, you must admit he seems to always find a way to one up the bad guys. .I can’t believe we have been the “Do-Boys for these guys this long anyhow.

Good for you…Again Me President!

And just so those up in the peanut gallery can hear, would you be so kind as to remind us…

Trump tells the UN countries who still are fighting the Israel thing that perhaps its  time they stop getting cash! Oops!

Tj

A Guest Post From Founder Darlene McRoberts of www.heresyourhopesite.wordpress.com Challenges Us On Where We Are Really At….

Hows Your Spiritual Tenacity? Your About To Find Out

 

https://wordpress.com/post/dontlabelmykid.wordpress.com/24456

 

 

 

 

Happy 4th ISIS- Courtesy Of The USA- Donald Trump, President . 

Just a year ago, our president Obama was sending terrorists billions of dollars – what a refreshing change this is…

Http://www.ustruthwire.com/2017/07/04/trump-and-america-just-gave-isis-a-big-surprise-for-independence-da

A LIST OF OBAMA’S ACCOMPLISHMENTS AS THE FIRST BLACK PRESIDENT OF THE USA

Even I must give credit where credit is due..

( Oh and btw, feel free to jump in and dispute these figures, I’ll admit I didn’t double check) so…umm my friends on that side, no comment on this and fair to call it true?)
http://www.americasfreedomfighters.com/2014/01/26/a-list-of-obamas-accomplishments-as-the-first-black-president-of-the-usa/?utm_source=Facebook&utm_medium=TFPP&utm_campaign=TFPP

She Has Announced The 24th Reason Why She Did Not Win, But Refusing To Say ” Lost” -As This Baby Was              ” Stolen ”  From Her…

Hillary don’t you think you lost this election fair and square? Just a simple right or wrong will suffice.  – I mean if…

“WRONG!! Tell them Willy , tell them I won ! ”

CNN ” We’ve Got The Impeachment Locked Up..

In a stunning announcement Saturday afternoon, CNN has released new evidence that they believe will have even the most conservative and Trump fan reeling for immediate resignation .

Talking about the president, In a quote from lead investigative reporter Ian Spin had this to say, ” He brushed right through the Supercuts scandal , he froze up a bit on the Baskin Robbins scoop, but today I’m here to tell you Mr. Trump has lost his run of luck.”

Apparently a team of volunteer lefty celebrities agreed  to go undercover in this investigation which supposedly will show that our president has a very sketchy bedroom secret that is supposedly so far out that it’s not only immoral, but ILLEGAL!  Questionable ethics and moral standards are mentioned.  The Implication  is that our president is not a good role model for the activities of a man who is supposed to be a God-fearing wholesome,  morally upright American  role model.

So far the only members of the investigative team demanding impeachment for Trump that have come forward are as follows-

 Miley (AAA) anywhere, anyone, anytime Cyrus

– Cher ( is my son my daughter? ) Bono 

The  runner formerly known as Bruce ( do I use the men’s room during transition? ) Jenner

Mark ( are you over 12 sweetie)Weiner

Rosie ( my mouth runneth over) O’Donnell

Finally-an unidentified sales person ( female ) at an upscale DC Furniture store who has made an extraordinary claim that she personally has sat on the presidents bed. ( this is not confirmed by our sources) furthermore she claims to have physical evidence that will leave no doubt that what Trump did was immoral and illegal..we are awaiting an update any minute on just what this ” evidence” is and clearly understand that if even a shred of this story and where it is leading us is true,  Donald Trump could find himself out of a job. Please stand by….

44 minutes later….

We thank you all for standing by. We have been privy to all of the details and are free to release them. The incident in question is legitimate. Donald Trump violated the law and we will see how stiff a penalty he will get. However the incident, was slightly misleading. After the objective news media was allowed to interview the key players, including the stock girl at the furniture store, we have found that the level of moral and ethical integrity has NOT been compromised.

In an unusual move- CNN not only ill-reported but exaggerated a story that they knew to be misleading. Who would have seen that coming ?

Under DC law, tearing off the label of a mattress is a crime. However, in a little known clause, if you have an allergy to makimup-nuuse  (ancient greek chemical)  an ingredient used in the making of mattress tags, you may actually tear the tag off.

So, good news for the President tonight although we here at DLMK News would caution the president that as much as we love him, his ” coloring outside the lines” lifestyle really is not conducive to the office of the President. Please exercise caution Mr. Trump.

That wraps it up for tonight , as always good news and good night.

tj

-Senior Editor (recently promoted)

 

ALL BETS- WOULD BE ON UNIT LOCKDOWN BY NOW HAD SHE WON & FACED REAL PRESSURE..

Private: Invitation Only–Please Join Us In The Fight To Provide Effective Services To Those Suffering. Tj & Mike

**This information is intended for the recipient and nobody else. Please lets keep this in house.. Greetings , You all are in for some very exciting news!  If you have received this invitation you are a part of a special group of people. You are special to us in that you are followers of Mike […]

 

 

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Above and below are 2 different ways to hear Tj  give his   personal greeting and update. In order to hear it you may have to load the open. If neither will work for you just skip it I will be doing these regularly.

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**This information is intended for the recipient and nobody else. Please lets keep this in-house..

Mike Carey alternative Solutions 4 Health & Tj from Dont Label My KId!

I made a quick audio update ( both links above, but had a few problems on one of the times I tried to open, you may have to download first but if its more than a few minutes just let it go, as it is jut an update and I will be dong these from time to time…tj


Greetings ,

You all are in for some very exciting news!  If you have received this invitation you are a part of a special group of people. You are special to us in that you are followers of Mike Carey – Alternative Solutions 4 Health, or TJ -(Dont Label My KId) and Mike have teamed up! That’s right we are joining forces to reach some goals and accomplish some things that have never been done before. We want you all along with us. Much is happening in the way of change and we have some exciting things in the works.

We want the people who have been supportive of us to get some too.

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(Notes- It has come to our attention that a fairly large group of bloggers were included in this private invitation who may or may not be followers of Don’t Label My Kid! Or Mike Carey .)

(After checking into it we found that you all actually are  considered by  WordPress to be followers of Don’t Label My Kid! via what I call the ‘ “undercover follower” method lol which I actually learned  is an option that I was unaware of. The other possibility is you register  so much on the site you are considered followers.

Either way you are blood.

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Just come on home – make it official-go click follow on this site. You do have to do that to take part so if you could make sure you all are ” legal” by like tomorrow we can stop the confusion…..And now we return to our regular programming. .)

With  Mike’s incredible knowledge and gifts in areas of  health and the mission of DLMK to serve a huge group of people worldwide who are desperate for help in the areas of mental, behavioral health and addictions it seemed a match made in heaven to team up and meet the needs of the total person in ways that have never been done. AS4H and DLMK have one thing in common.

Success rates that are at least double or more of many of the options available. That is not to say there are not very talented people working in our areas because there is. We have a unique chance to make sure that all components that a person may need in treatment, we can help with and using the same team, same model and same philosophy. Not all have that advantage.

Beliefs in how and who in treatment are absolutely identical. Both are believers in getting to the root issue; both believe in as natural of a healing as is possible; both are  committed to a return to normalcy asap. Sadly the country we live in supports financially those who keep people sick. It pays very well.

The goals of physical treatment centers and other care is already in the works. As matter of fact we will be talking with a major insurer in Florida about helping fund treatment centers! At this moment right now we have a goal to get services out to the world through virtual means. Mike can do what he does and the whole team can each help in reaching out to the world. However one thing holds us back.

It is very expensive technical work to build a portal  as we will using the Don’t Label My Kid! site as a platform. The site today has followers from 60 countries. The cost to make this happen is huge but not as a team. You are part of our team. It’s not a one-sided team and that’s why nobody else but our followers got invitations. As we succeed, you succeed. Why pay an outside investor a ton of money to help us when we can work together and meet all of our needs?

With that said – in order to reach who we need to reach we will need help.  So we are asking that you take a hard look at what is in front of you right now and consider getting involved to the extent that are able. We think no matter what level you are supporting us he return will far outweigh any monthly investment. When we need to add some service providers to our database who do you think we will utilize?

That’s right – you.

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In closing I will give a quick example or two. The placement of your blogs name on a separate page on the website goes to anyone at any level. Think about this. How much would it cost for a newspaper as or magazine/radio ads -100? More ? Even then you must hope and pray that people hear or see your ad at the very time they need your service.

Our followers are made up of people like you same demographic. That’s gold. The potential reach for your name in a day could be 500k- you see DLMK has followers that have 100k each!  So it’s a great deal. Please jump in, Today is the kick-off let’s do it up!

                               Here is our Commitment to You –

**For those come on board now, we will do something to show you our appreciation. We provide care for the total person here . We make sure that whether it’s a general doctor, a psychologist, an addictions specialist or any other type of care, that we have the best of the best.

So, to those who become any level as a founding member -we have you covered for any crisis needs in your immediate family. Free.

The 3 subscriptions are below are simply select what is best and sign up…

(We do have a few limited partnerships available. These are NOT for the average blogger or small business owner . The investment and commitment are much greater and suited for large set ups. People looking make some high level career advances with other projects we are working on and things like that. They are listed after the 3 below.)

***THIS JUST IN- PLEASE READ*****Mike Carey and I just spoke Today is 4/29/2107  at 10:40pm Eastern Time.

Mike has told me to take away the hours of consulting that go with the package if you are a Founders Club Member…Instead, when you become an active member now AT ANY LEVEL– He said PUT NO LIMIT ON IT!!! This means by subscribing you are on Mike’s List Of Clients and you NEVER have to pay for his service..

He also said as a small token of his appreciation to those who are serving, or have served in the military Everything ( all of his services) are on the house and the same goes for those in Christian Pastoral ministry or retired from it. 

Finally, if you want to become a member but cannot afford 25.00$ / Month we will offer scholarships if you can provide proof

. We also exchange services for memberships-if you have a skill we can use, or a product we can use..

Thanks in advance for trusting us and becoming Founding Club Members !


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100.00– Platinum

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100% confidential and no longer available to non followers.

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                    The Executive Access – Boardroom Access Partners

We are also offering an entirely different type membership. They are Limited Partnerships – meaning only 10 of each are being considered at this time. The positions are for those who are aggressively pursuing some specific goals in a business, career or any pursuit that would require high-profile connections or simply need  to do more than run a small business, and need the help of a larger group to help them to the next level.

We designed these slots with a few things in mind. One is to help some of our own followers achieve their goals, so in the future they can pay it forward and continue the mission that we have started. Another is to help us achieve our financial goals so we can begin doing what we do best, help others. The financial investment for the Executive is 500/monthly and the Boardroom is 1000/month. It is the highest level of commitment on both sides that exists.

In some ways these are open to what the two sides can do for each other. We have the advantage of being able to be flexible and creative.

The primary differences between the two is one has access to the board of directors on certain issues and has a voice and even a vote on issues related to the services fund-raising project. The Boardroom Access partner is that person.

There is a process to discuss either of these. If you are interested contact Tj to set up a phone conference -tim@dontlabelmykid.com.

occasionally we will have a need for a staff member and offer it out as a regular position. Right now we are looking to fill a few part-time executive assistant positions in exchange for platinum memberships .

We hope you find just the right opportunities so we can see you grow while we grow!

thanks Mike Carey and Tj Petri

Health Trivia!Get Ready To Be Shocked?.

http://www.alternativesolutions4health.info/facts/

Mike Carey is the owner of alternativesolutions4health- and our new partner . 

Since meeting him I have never ceased to be amazed  at the new things I learn . I had to share this quick fact sheet of things he shares on his site …

tj

So- You Plan On Moving On Up To The Average Do You? Wow! Shooting For The Stars..(* Recommended Reading- By Me)

You may notice I recommeded this right? But its my own writing! I know, I just put down a new standard. You will understand soon..

What Or Who Are We Really Trying To Be?

Someone recently askied me this ” did you know that the post I read of yours today was xxxx  amount of words? That’s like 1200 more than the average post, I am just letting you know..”

I looked her and shook my head smirking…I said ” I know ain’t that insane nobody but me has figured out about how long a post should be, what a shame”

Now, we are friends and I was picking up what she was trying to put down. However there is a grain of truth in what I said. Not about ME being the standard, but who has the right to set a ” standard”  anyhow and is that what we are all striving for?

Can you imagine going into a job interview and when the boss says ” tell me what your ambitions are, your dreams and what you are striving to be?” So you sit up, chest out, and firmly and proudly say ” well sir , I am striving to be the average at what  I do, I believe I have what it takes to meet the ” standard”.  As a matter fact sir I currently am almost dead even with the other professionals at everything I do!

Wow- You are Hired! Right ? Is that what you would hope to hear? I would not hold your breath! Lol.. Yet Do we even realize or know what we are striving to be? Can you identify what your goal to attain really is? Is it to be ” as good as so and so” you’r professional hero? If so you might want to step it up a notch. What good is it for me to finally climb Mt. Everest just to stand on top and proudly say YES! Today I am as good as all those who stood before me! I am now rolling in the same class with some pretty higher-ups!

Wow- good for you. You  have just proven that you are capable of doing something so awesome, so incredible and so top-notch that you can now say you are just like the rest who accomplished the very same thing…lol.

You have noticed in the last 25 years or so we have plowed into, stayed in and are even trying to go further a humongous initiative to get everything done FAST!

1- Fast Food

2-Fast Books

3- Fast Travel

4-Fast EVERYTHING!

I am not exaggerating in this sense. About any ad these days for almost anything has something to do with the speed that we can get it  ” over with” …

So lets look quickly at what its done for us..

1-Fast Food- No more family dinner time at 6 no matter what where our whole posse gets together and talks about our day. Its has really reversed that into us being with our ” new ” families – coworkers almost all day, and talking about what fast food we ate by ourselves for lunch…

2- Fast travel Well, the old adage ” stop and smell the roses” is not gone totally- but the most roses have taken other jobs or are secretly looking around I think! Business is not what it once was. I was looking at my grandmother’s picture collection a few months ago. My grandfather was an incredible man. He worked 50 years as an accountant at Mobile oil after coming here from Germany at age 7 with no English language skills. He was made fun of and all but he pressed on to become one of the most awesome husbands and men in general I have ever known.

Each year at Mobile after he became fairly successful, he got a bonus. He loved to golf and had lots of cool hobbies he could have spent that on. But no matter what it was a tradition that he used his bonus to send my grandmother and a few friends of her choice on a cruise of her choice. And he was proud to do it. In the last years those cruises became world cruises! A real treat for granny and her girls. So as I looked through her albums I noticed that besides having an album for each years cruise, they were filled with pictures for each stop, each port, each special city of all the ladies smiling and laughing.

My first thought was wow, they were the standard. That’s when they did stop for each rose, they did eat together, they did make any speed in life acceptable only if it would bring them back together quicker when they were separated for any reason. Missing a dinner as a family was a bummer. My grandparents were married almost 60 years. You know what-it wasn’t rare back in their day. Today I am waiting for someone to come out with a webinar on How to marry 6x in 60 years- without leaving work-lol…

So here is my point. Not everything that glitters is platinum. I know I know gold..but that’s changed too. Some changes have been great, trains , planes and all allow us to enjoy more of  life that is if that’s what we use it for. I could go on past fast food, books, microwaves, an all that forever. I don’t think the majority of our need for speed has been the best for our families and health. However once again we created another monster we cannot feed.

Looking at the rates of the family breakdown alone is depressing. I am not saying our obsession with rushing through life has desroyed our families…wait yes I am saying that.

Don’t let the ” standard ” define you. You define the standard.

Wow, that was pretty good stuff! I am going to recommend this to a few of my friends .  WHAT ? Whats the look for?

Oh, OOPS– that’s not really, well appropriate is it? Pushing my own stuff.

Well excellent then! I will do it.

I have just set a new standard!

Make a note of that in your book of standards before you forget.

Now- how about you go and set your own standard today. But whatever you do , don’t you dare do a word count on your or my posts! LOL

I am out-

tj