The Tongue Has The Power of Life And Death in It…Are You A Murderer?

Have you ever met someone who just had a special talent for absolutely tearing people apart with their mouth? The vitriol spewed out like the lava from a volcano, just hot and hurtful as they could be?

You will remember them many years after because the wounds from those attacks don’t heal real quickly. The verbal exchanges almost always include a piece of very personal information that you willingly shared with them and now they are using your own trust against you by bringing it back up.

There are two reasons people get that mad, in that fashion and are oblivious and apathetic towards others, and here they are.

1- They have been very hurt themselves ..

2 – They have been very hurt themselves..

Why People Are So Mean

“Hurt people hurt people, and loved people love people.”- unknown

This is so true and applies to just about every situation involving the words we say. It would not matter so much if  words themselves were not so powerful.

I can think of 5-6 scripture verses off the top of my head about the power our tongue has.  We are not warned that wrong words may cause a little irritation, or make someone frown. Nope.

We are told  in no uncertain terms that this is life and death. The ability to completely destroy another’s self-confidence and break their will down..words are dangerous and you can see by the image in this post what God has to say about those who don’t control their tongues. The outlook is not too bright.

I was a hideous killer of people’s hearts when I was a teen. I remember saying things to people when I was angry and noticed the effect my comments were having on others. I was more shocked and confused then anything, after all this was common dinner table talk with my dad around. It meant absolutely nothing to me and i considered others weak. It was not until I was in my 20’s that I believe God showed me the big picture. I think He had mercy on me because up until then these unbelievable words I was spewing out meant nothing to me.

The important part is that as a result of my learning the truth about how my words got where they were, I had to pass by the places and things that I had so much built up anger about and start acknowledging them so I could work through my own healing. Otherwise not much would change. Remember the saying ” Hurt people Hurt people and loved people love people” If we remain in a state of a hurt heart, our words are not likely to change. That is where the grace of God and His healing of memories comes in.

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Hopefully statements like the one above wont be so common out of our mouths anymore. Whether you are the hurt one spewing out comments that tear people up inside, or you have been on the receiving end of the negativity, take action. Pray for the person who is hurting you but don’t put yourself in front of them too much until things change. If its unavoidable such as a spouse, then its time to come clean whichever side you are on and make some changes.

Are you a hurt person or a loved person? You measure that by your fruit. The words that come from your lips.

TJ

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