Many people do not understand the significant connection between the act of sexual abuse and the lifestyles and choices that almost always follow the victim.
As far as numbers go, I think people do believe them. Here is a common statistic- 80% of all those who commit sexual abuse on another have been abused, but not 80% of those who are abused actually abuse.
This is a true statement and very high percentage of abusers were abused, yet not many people comment or question it. So for whatever reason people don’t seem to either see or want to see the relationship between the child predator and the future of the abused. For the purpose of this post I am going to stay away from numbers , and simply explain in common sense terms why we have such a tremendous backlash from inappropriate sexual behavior. When a child or even preteen is taken advantage of sexually by a member of the same sex, they immediately have some additional baggage to carry and choices to make. When the child gets into his teens and his friends are hormonally drawn to girls, he may be unclear about that. Actually he may have some opposite feelings and be drawn to a man. Why? Simple. If you are 7 years old and some trusted male figure makes you feel like you have never heard about or dreamed about in a way you now know as being sexual, why would you look elsewhere?
So many times that’s where we see what people like to call experimenting or bi-curious. Many times they go with what they know, and that’s male on male. Now they are a “homosexual”.
Often times that will prove uncomfortable ( as it should ) and with the rise of gender reassignment we now have another group – who being ” gay ” didnt work for. So they decided they must now be the sex which is opposite of what the physical evidence shows.
Now here are some facts . No matter which group a sexually abused kid ends up with, the likihoid if suicide, drug activity and domestic violence is five fold of that of those in heterosexual relationships. The issue of not being sure about ones sexuality causes anger and anger leads to violence . These things lead to self medication and often, as in the case of my brother, suicide is the only way they see out of the pain.
Some, like he did -choose suicide as soon as they know something is wrong but can’t handle even thinking about the process of trying to figure it out. Some of the books I found in Danny’s room , along with the letters from the priest who actually molested him were entitled Search For Human Sexuality or books with similar titles. . Very clear that he left very confused about how he should feel.
The point is this; whether it be the horrendous pedophile rings in the Catholic church, or uncle Jonny who has been messing with us since we were little, there are no survivors who don’t at least have life interrupted, and for many its game over.
For every vote you give to support the homosexual lifestyle , you are supporting the consequences if it.
Its time to quit acting.as if homosexual behavior is acceptable and start caring for victims. We have got to quit pretending one is a bigot if they stand up for truth while these kids being mass raped in church each day.